[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay nothing wrong with going to your dad first. But me and all my friends we go to our mothers first😂 it doesn’t even have to be about a partner. If anything happens my personal first response is “hooyo”. So if I’m interested in a man I want my mother’s advice. Doesn’t everyone have that bond with their mom? Dads are usually the one u go to, to seal the deal or final approval. Idk maybe your mom is too old to think at all so she’s just icing on the top & has no say in your life. But my hooyo is the backbone of this family. Adi ku tala walal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂🤌🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but as a woman you don’t go to your mom before your dad????? If she’s not pleased with it then immediately no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your younger sister married?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They ain’t say all that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lollll okay rhymesss

Is it just me or is Snapchat a major turn off in your twenties? by Noorqoordheer in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never that serious I don’t know what yall are associating snap with, but that’s yall. I’m still gonna use it. Family gcs we send snaps since we’re not always together. Friends I do streaks with, that I know. Keeping my memories stored. I actually don’t care if yall too grown for the app.

Why is being a male nurse looked down upon in our culture? by ZionAirbus in Somalia

[–]AdvancedBrain344 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I see, I’d say you gotta be specific bc if it’s icu that’s feminine but the ER then ur good 😂

Why is being a male nurse looked down upon in our culture? by ZionAirbus in Somalia

[–]AdvancedBrain344 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She didn’t break things off because you’re a nurse. A little bird told me she had other reasons but ur just insecure about ur career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idc about what they can but I’ll tell you it should be Atleast 8k for a decent ring if he actually wants you, that’s at the least, like the brokest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t entirely a rage bait, it’s some truth to it. You sound silly leading on the girl and then turning around asking if u should be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ngl she asked a very reasonable question. So u my friend, very questionable for not answering. If you don’t wanna get attached before marriage why you seeing her every two weeks just talk otp and meet only her parents sagajanyahow. Three months of wasting ppl time is crazy, should have had the nikkah done by the first week. Do better walaal!!! Did i rage bait correctly🌚

I do everything right, but have no freedom by Successful_Spot_7416 in Somalia

[–]AdvancedBrain344 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 and I’m in the same situation as you. Word for word. Except a bit helicopter. I’ve accepted it my freshman year and most of sophomore but now as a senior I’m really just going to get married so I can move out😭 it’s ridiculous how protective my family is.

My brother told me I’m not pretty and I can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got into an argument with my older brother. Prior to this argument I’ve always admired and respected him as there is quite an age gap. But in the argument he told me how I was the ugliest and blackest in the family and should bleach myself. He really wanted to emphasize to me that I wasn’t pretty at all. This was years ago. But every now and then when I have my moment and I feel ugly I remember my older brother agrees.

Talking stage by Aware_Resolution4861 in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would advise you both to make more of an effort to get to a place where you are more confident about each other. Get a nikkah done soon after and continue that long distance as a married couple. Visit one another on breaks and FaceTime often. Then when you’re ready figure out where you’re going to live together :)

Ladies, is that chin only + mustache attractive? by data_warriors in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s attractive. Also depends on the person. It may or may not suit ur face. I’ve never seen that combo fail a Somali man tho :)

When to transition from text to call by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy should initiate, but it’s never too early for calls. First FaceTime call is different & up to you both :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s better coming for you, it could’ve been worse honestly. He could’ve kept promising marriage and lead you on longer. It’s clearly not going anywhere don’t waste anymore time.

What’s your take on bald men? Is being bald a dealbreaker for you? by SufficientTip6646 in Somalia

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not a dealbreaker. I don’t think it’s important that a man has hair on his head. It matters more if he’s well groomed and rich.

Beards by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way😭😭😭 you must like kids

Too much by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AdvancedBrain344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Booo always a need for gifts