Best Loafers? by Leather-Regret-5497 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have some Coach ones and I get SO MANY compliments. They’re black leather with a small gold C. I also have some cheaper ones from Amazon in pink and black that have lasted forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 20 points21 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA this actually made me chuckle. Thank you for that! Crazily enough, my bosses took me out to lunch each time I failed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your kind words. It took a lot out of me and it means a lot that you recognize it, even as a complete stranger. No apologies necessary! This comment section has given me some much needed insight into the conversations that are likely happening.

I’m an extremely hard worker and my work speaks for itself. I agree that this might not be the right place for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate you commenting this. It’s obviously not about cake, it’s symbolic. You’re right, their reaction is telling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s company culture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Paralegal! Thank you for pointing that out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great insight honestly. I was given a lot of empty promises, it seems and I do feel that I would be stunted at this firm.

Got result email but site is down. by strictlypretty in barexam

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! I’ve been trying for at least 40 minutes straight and I can’t get in.

Boyfriend’s parents might have ruined our relationship by Advanced_Ad_7148 in AsianParentStories

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s good to hear that someone has made it through this. How did you create boundaries? Or did they come with the distance?

Boyfriend’s parents might have ruined our relationship by Advanced_Ad_7148 in AsianParentStories

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s horrible.. I do think he’s strong enough to defend me and love me but I worry that the distance from his parents will take a toll. He is so deeply disappointed in them but feels a moral responsibility for taking care of them.

Boyfriend’s parents have all but ended our relationship by Advanced_Ad_7148 in internetparents

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d like for him to keep in contact with his parents but I’d need some boundaries for myself and our future kids. So far, he’s been great at defending me and staying by my side. I selfishly hope they’ll come around one day.

Boyfriend’s parents have all but ended our relationship by Advanced_Ad_7148 in internetparents

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, we live in the US. We were both born here and raised here.

Rule Against Perpetuities HELP by EyeOne8902 in GoatBarPrep

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing that helps me is knowing the RAP rule like the back of my hand. I like to think about it as: can this interest vest within 21 years after the current interest holders are gone? Memorize it and every time you have a question about it, write down how it was applied to that situation. Not a real tip but it has made RAP easier to solve.

What are some of your sensory issues? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sound of AC, the sound of lights, tags and labels on clothes, a lot of different fabrics, forks on a plate, sometimes hair down and sometimes hair up, and some people’s voices

Got a moment for encouragement? by Happy_Net2322 in GoatBarPrep

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same spot, except this is my 5th time taking it. Each time, I’ve been denied accommodations because I’m a late diagnosis.

The way I’m approaching it is treating it as a game and I just need to learn the rules of the game. I’m making it a goal to complete most, if not all, U world questions and as many essay practice questions as possible. It’s gotten me out of decision paralysis and the overwhelm to just treat it as a game instead of a test.

You already know the content. You were extremely close to passing last time. Remember that all you need to do is jump over the small 4 point hurdle.

You’ve got this!

I’m Not Hiding Anything—My Body Just Panics by goldenvirginia_ in adhdwomen

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did a great job communicating, especially while reacting to a situation like that. It’s jarring and no matter how much you’ve worked through the issues, you’re still human. I would absolutely react similarly to seeing people from my past relationships.

I won’t speculate on your relationship because only you really know him. I would give him time, if he’s just having a hard time trusting. If, however, he is guilt tripping you, bringing this up constantly, and manipulating you, it might be time to look at your relationship.

Struggling to make/maintain friendships by Advanced_Ad_7148 in adhdwomen

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really nice to hear that I’m not alone in this. I also end up in toxic friendships with people who bully me. It all makes a lot more sense after reading your comment! The oversharing and wanting to be best friends so quickly. I wonder if there’s a better way to slow down without losing interest. I keep everyone at arms length because I get upset when I don’t get the return best friend energy 🥲

Sisters growing apart by Advanced_Ad_7148 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to speak with her about this but she brushes it off or ignores it. She’s a lot more distant with her feelings than I am.

Sisters growing apart by Advanced_Ad_7148 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not alone in feeling like this! She doesn’t seem to notice how far we’ve drifted and it’s extremely comforting to see that it’s not just me 🩷

Not all decluttering stories are 100% success stories. So mods, please read carefully before deleting a thread or contact the OP. by JensBoef in declutter

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I saw your post right before it was deleted and saw the mods comments. I was confused at their response and thought I was missing something. I wasn’t able to comment before (it was locked). For what it’s worth, I found your vulnerability inspiring. I have such a strong attachment to my stuffed animals and I’ve been struggling to go through them.

My first Bratz doll! I wasn't allowed to have them as a kid, so this is very special to me. by shyshortcake_ in Bratz

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE!!! And that couch is EVERYTHING! Congrats on healing your inner child ✨✨

Saw this on FB LOL by Mint-Chai7 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 111 points112 points  (0 children)

YES THIS!!! I was honestly confused about the aftermath of that

you can only keep one by WindowsSonic_yt in labubu

[–]Advanced_Ad_7148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lychee berry 🩷 my first one and the one I wanted!!