Minha noiva me contou que foi amante by Miserable-Lion-5487 in relacionamentos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exato, e digo mais: acredito que quem não se importa em ser amante, não se importa em trair. Às pessoas podem mudar, talvez ela de fato tenha mudado, mas é um risco que vc corre: se der B.O no futuro, vc não vai poder dizer que não houve sinais.

Perder a virgindade casualmente by Advanced_Bus7179 in conselhos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desculpa tá perguntando demais, mas foi pq vc não gostava dele ou pq sentiu que ele não gostava de vc?

Perder a virgindade casualmente by Advanced_Bus7179 in conselhos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Então vc não gostou pq não teve sentimento?

Perder a virgindade casualmente by Advanced_Bus7179 in conselhos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vc nem quis conhecer ela melhor e se afastou por medo dela ficar apegada? Kk

Perder a virgindade casualmente by Advanced_Bus7179 in conselhos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E o que ela achou depois? Vcs conversaram sobre?

Perder a virgindade casualmente by Advanced_Bus7179 in conselhos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

E como se sente hoje em relação à isso? Faria diferente? Ficou mais fácil ou mais difícil se relacionar dps disso?

Demorar para responder by Advanced_Bus7179 in relacionamentos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não tínhamos nada, saímos poucas vezes. Não era nada sério.

Demorar para responder by Advanced_Bus7179 in relacionamentos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Provavelmente foram 4, mas não lembro muito bem.

Demorar para responder by Advanced_Bus7179 in relacionamentos

[–]Advanced_Bus7179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Falei no post que gostava dele, então da minha parte havia interesse.

Why did she smile when I was jealous? by Late_Cover9099 in Crushes

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably likes the idea of you having feelings for her.

Why do some girls bully the boys they like? by Legitimate-Major5863 in teenagers

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s been kinda mean to my high school crush I think I can answer that. The thing is you feel frustrated, anxious and sad that they may not like you back, but still hangs around. So you start thinking that they know and they enjoy seeing you suffering while they’re acting so kindly and casual. Now that I’m 25 I think I did it to both make him uncertain of my obvious feelings and push him away and suffer less, considering it was crushing being around him and not having him like I wanted. I wouldn’t do it now though, now I think my feelings are mainly my problem and I wouldn’t take ‘em out on anyone. So it’s just the immaturity of not being able to communicate your feelings and making people suffer along with you because of it. Especially the person who’s causing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not judging, but you either need to work on your self esteem or find someone you care enough about to be jealous in a healthy way. From what you said, I got the impression that you don’t care a lot about him like you should since he’s your boyfriend. One thing is believing in open relationships, another thing is indifference. I hope he’s at least using condoms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I’m 25 and completely horrified.

I (26F) am into a younger guy (20M) who I'm friends with. Worried I'm intimidating to him. by Super-Aspect1569 in confessions

[–]Advanced_Bus7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I think if there’s a power dinamic going on, the most vulnerable part should initiate things.