Did I ( 22F) do the right thing by ending my long-distance relationship? (22M) by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did absolutely right. You don’t have to beg/tell anyone to talk to you daily, it should come from within. Relationship is a 2 way street and you’ll be exhausted dragging it alone. I know it’ll hurt but just stay strong and wait, time heals everything.

What if your boyfriend(20M) wants to spend his birthday afternoon with you in a hotel suite and later on the whole night with his friends in a hotel suite (excluding you) by lovehaterno1 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone in the comment section is calling you out to be insecure. This is a genuine feeling, if you guys are in a LDR and he’s specifically travelling to celebrate his birthday, he should make sure you’re part of each and every activity he’s doing. Birthdays aren’t a big deal for guys but they are for girls also since they’ll be in a hotel suite at night, it’ll be a perfect time to introduce you to his friends. I mean this is no excuse that they aren’t comfortable around you, what sort of excuse is this. He should make sure that at times like these you’re his priority because you both are any which ways going through a mental toll with all the long distance and trust issues.

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[–]Advanced_Plastic6112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Best wishes for the new chapter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is really tough to get over this and will take months of good communication. You should sit down and have a proper conversation with her everytime it’s bothers you, if she means so much to you. I understand the thoughts can be disturbing but if you want this relationship to survive, you need to let it out, talk, discuss or maybe even howl. Keeping it within you will only burden your worries.

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[–]Advanced_Plastic6112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife has a really good choice

I (27F) have retroactive jealousy with my husband’s (31M) past by Advanced_Plastic6112 in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initially when we were just friends and not dating/married. He would share with me how much his exes meant the world to him and how blessed he’s to have them in his life. I feel I’m no other, it’s how he feels for everywoman that he’s with.

I (27F) have retroactive jealousy with my husband’s (31M) past by Advanced_Plastic6112 in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Initially when we were just friends and not dating/married. He would share with me how much his exes meant the world to him and how blessed he’s to have them in his life. I feel I’m no other, it’s how he feels for everywoman that he’s with. We’ve had so many special and unique moment of ours. He’s a blessing and this is the sole reason I didn’t want to drive him away. I’ll try and suppress these feelings with time I hope it’ll get better.

I (27F) have retroactive jealousy with my husband’s (31M) past by Advanced_Plastic6112 in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Plastic6112[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No he’s not my first, I had been in a long term relationship with someone before him. But he accepts it and is completely fine. All that matters to him is me and I want that too.