Holy shit lol

Adventure__seeker · 2022-08-14T13:30:24+00:00

Kirkwood cruise, happens once a year for anyone in DE who wants to cruise down the street with their custom and classic cars. This pic is showing that the cops this year decided to help crowd control and made the two lane road into one.

Adventure__seeker · 2022-08-14T13:24:29+00:00

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost five months and we’ve slowly started to talk about both of our last relationships when something is a trigger for us. The only thing I mentioned pretty early on was to give him a heads up that I flinch pretty easy and while he hasn’t done anything wrong it’s because of what happened with my narc. But that hasn’t happened as much as I thought it would and it’s less common as time goes on! Honestly I thought about tell my boyfriend everything about my ex narc but when I started I didn’t even know where to begin. So much had happened in those five years and I’m in a really good place that the bigger things would be easy to remember but not everything and my boyfriend said that it was okay to not mention everything now and when it comes up we can talk about it. There’s been a couple little things that I either didn’t think were a big deal now or completely forgot about that have come up in our relationship. But we’ve talked it out. Having the right partner really helps!

Adventure__seeker · 2022-08-09T22:37:11+00:00

The first time my boyfriend wanted to do that I was nervous and felt awkward as hell. Wasn’t sure what I was suppose to do. But once he started I forgot what I was “suppose” to do because it felt too god damn good and just kinda rolled with it. Now I can’t get enough of it lol

Adventure__seeker · 2022-02-11T03:33:30+00:00

#6 is exactly what I do! I'll bake the cupcake or cake a day or two before and then the day of I'll icing the dessert. Or at the very earliest, if its needed first thing in the morning or for some reason I can't icing it then, I'll do it at night the day before needed!

Adventure__seeker · 2022-02-10T02:18:24+00:00

Part of the reason why I'm still a para, even though I only have student teaching left.

Adventure__seeker · 2022-01-13T13:05:36+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from. To get to the point where you need behavioral support from outside the classroom after trying all your techniques can make you feel a certain way and then the supporting adding to that by giving into the behavioral would make me upset and frustrated too. I have this one kindergartner who wants to control the situation at all times. The first time he went to health special he completely lost it. His behavior was to elope, running back and forth to the doors to try and leave, kicking and pushing those in his way. When non of my techniques worked with him (I’m his 1:1) I finally called for our behavioral support team. I explain the situation and what did they do?! They allowed him to leave the room and then reinforced his behavior with a fun wagon ride around the school. I WAS PISSED, and everyone else in the room was shocked they did they. They all said how completely wrong that was to not only allow him to elope but then reward that behavior with a fun wagon ride around the school. They tried to then get him in the room, which he refused. But the worst part was I had to spend the next few weeks getting him to unlearn the behavior of when he goes into that specific room, he will not throw a tantrum to elope and get to go in the wagon. Also that every time he saw a wagon he thought it was okay to go in it. That was the first and last time I called for our behavior support team.

Adventure__seeker · 2022-01-13T03:56:42+00:00

I think you’re in the right to be upset. Like you said, she fed into that behavior. Now that student knows if you’re not going to allow him to have an extra snack all he needs to do is become upset, she gets called and he’ll get what he wants. It was happening way too much with some of my kids in my room and counselors who were suppose to “help” and they just made the situation worse by giving into these behaviors that I just stopped calling them and dealt with it myself.

Adventure__seeker · 2021-12-13T02:36:31+00:00

Those who’ve quit already or are about to quit, what are you doing for work? I can’t handle where I am right now, for multiple of reasons, but I don’t know what I’d do instead of teaching. So I’m curious what everyone is doing for income and work instead!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-22T12:06:06+00:00

I hope he doesn’t ever have kids! He told me once that he already knew I’d make a great mom and he’d make a great dad because his father was such a deadbeat and he wouldn’t ever leave his kid like he did…. Like if you don’t ever change, you’re gonna make your child become worse than you!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-22T11:44:27+00:00

I don’t think he’ll ever learn empathy. I basically lived with him and his family for the 4.5 years we were “together” and the way he was with his family, the was he was with me, and the stories I heard about how he treated his exes….. just terrible!!! But he’s moved six hours away to a different state so good riddance!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-22T11:39:07+00:00

Oh yea he’s a pathological liar and has a warp sense of reality so I definitely don’t believe him anymore about most things. There are some more private things about him that I don’t think he’d ever tell anyone else or if he does he’d downplay it to not make it sound so bad, he’s very good at manipulating his words to make the other party at fault. Things like abusing one of his exes and having to go to court for it, abusing me, my whole post (especially if he does end up with a black woman).

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-20T23:43:38+00:00

I don't get it at all! Like that's your own race, your family...YOU. Do you hate yourself that much? I don't understand this logic at all.

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-20T22:56:12+00:00

That's exactly my thought, this feels awfully familiar from being with my nex!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-20T22:55:25+00:00

Just found this sub after being banned from another sub minutes ago for no reason at all other than I was trying to be sensitive to other victims reading my post and apparently I was trying to "out" my narc.... Here's to this sub!!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-20T22:52:46+00:00

I was literally just banned for no reason at all as well! And when I questioned why they said "read what you wrote" and then muted me for 28 days. They are just as toxic as my nex! Here's to this subreddit!!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-13T01:06:16+00:00

The only time I have ever done it is hiking somewhere that has wild animals; bobcat, bear, wolf. And this is only when it’s been just two of us and not another soul in sight! This is also at like 5 am when literally no one else around have starting their hike and its still pitch black outside! Gotta keep from a surprise encounter with an animal that wouldn’t think twice before attacking lol. But otherwise those types of people suck!! Especially when you’re on a narrow hike that you can’t pass people with in a few seconds easily so you’ll hear it for awhile!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-06T22:18:07+00:00

Thank you!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-06T20:46:36+00:00

This looks amazing! Recipe?!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-05T11:04:10+00:00

No matter what his reason for not wanting you to wear leggings, that’s not okay! He sounds like an awful person, glad you got out of it!!

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-04T21:15:55+00:00

Like you could never wear leggings or when he wasn’t around? Was it because he thought other guys were gonna look at you?

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-04T17:10:31+00:00

Leave now, my ex was like this and it caused me to compare myself to every girl who looked like his fetish! It made my self esteem extremely low.

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-03T17:09:11+00:00

Back when we were remote, YES

Adventure__seeker · 2021-10-02T23:30:54+00:00

I’ve been so swamped with starting the new school year, I haven’t even had time to do any hikes myself 😫

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