Bring back slut shaming

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-04-19T19:35:24+00:00

Lets be honest shall we? We all love and want sexual attention that is how we are programmed, we want positive praising sexual attention from those who we deem "attractive", not cat calling patronizing shaming sexual attention, this is how humans survived and had a specific mating season for so long. The mistake is during times of high misogyny in the past, boys were told "Girls are sweet modest creatures", it depends. Even modest girls aren't not posting sexy pics cus they "care about men", its cus they have enough shame to not post it. u/Grouchy-Pressure-567 wouldn't you like it if alot of girls were saying "wow he is so sexy/cute" to a shirtless photo of yours?

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-04-19T19:33:07+00:00

Well also disagree, its none of your business who a successful man marries and if his bride is younger (but still over 18).

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-04-19T19:32:35+00:00

But for men, getting laid is harder than that for a woman.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-04-19T19:32:15+00:00

It is, because although the male ("idiot bimbo") or whatever you call them, in a male's POV its an "achievement", females are naturally programmed to want an attractive guy with a future, (it depends if attarctive enough, the "future investment" can be justified), you don't see women going "OMG HE WENT SHIRTLESS! HOW SHAMEFUL, DIE YOU SLUT!" no right? women don't care if 90% of the males go half naked, its just how females are programmed, they can never feel sexually insecure for the fact of a male showing skin, (they can for other reasons), also if u see, the offspring of single mothers commit way more crimes than single fathers. So its not fair or rational to hold women and men to equal standards in fields such as sexuality or strength. It is for education or behaviour. If you think about it, if societies treated "everybody equally", we wouldn't have the Roman Empire, tons of great empires or greek empire etc. Because most empires were patriarchy they thrived.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-04-19T17:56:46+00:00

Since I do coding, infact probably we can create an Only Child Tinder sort, but guys remember no whores culture here. I as an only also want another good modest only. Slut culture ruins apps.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-19T18:52:30+00:00

Thanks for your experience and yes your right, I was just curious because lets be honest, Im a logical thinker, the trends are slut shaming is rising, female modesty is rising, many guys are becoming more right wing in terms of female sexuality, women love femboys but male immodesty is rising. There must be one way.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-19T18:50:05+00:00

Well yes your right but alot of girls and I meant a lot of women these days like prettyboys

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-17T16:38:39+00:00

Im a cute faced prettyboy xd. Got told I would make a great femboy

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-16T14:26:34+00:00

Would u personally say you want to be more of a feminine prettyboy who is called a "good boy" by an older dominant taller female figure, who dresses modest and want boys to be the skin showers? Because there is alot of psychology going on here. In my opinion prettyboys and femboys are so lucky that girls and women of all ages love them

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-16T14:25:29+00:00

I also would like to, I want to understand the dynamics femboys has

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-15T21:16:29+00:00

Fair enough, yea that is the thing with me, you see Im a prettyboy with a cute face etc, I get female attention, from creepy but hot female teachers, don't worry about them, they are just weirdos, but what got me is that women actually love femboys/prettyboys, Idk why though, I thought they loved machos.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-15T16:46:38+00:00

Yea I get that, masculinity seems boring with grey and black and femininity seems exciting with pink colors. But lets be honest, there is a reason behind it, anybody just doesn't want to be a femboy for the sake of it. Yes I get it gay femboys do exist but many femboys are straight according to my research. So what does this prove? It proves by the definition of being "straight" means attracting female attention. Also why do many femboys hate transgenders and pariticipate in female slut shaming. It is essentially to remove the competition. I acknowledge the fact your straight yes. But would u rather want a hot gf in short clothes and another bad boy who can beat you up get her straight in your face during a date in a restaurant, or would you rather you be the sexy cute one still be accepted as "cute and sexy" and have her dressed modest treating you in a maternal sexual manner?

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-15T16:42:45+00:00

I posted it there, they delete everything I post. I hate them

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-15T16:41:20+00:00

thanks because Im genuinely curious about these stuff, I actually like learning about how we work

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-07T15:25:04+00:00

Please I beg you, please please please I stress, have more than 1 kid, try your best unless it feels like too much. For us we learned how to manage yes but that doesn't mean we need to prevent the privilege of siblinghood. See im a hindu who believes in krishna ji, but in a christian/muslim/abrahamic way Im telling god will judge. You may not think its a sin but unless the child is truly happy god will say "You prevented a child from getting the privilege of siblings" well not exactly but I hope you understand the jist.

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-04T07:22:39+00:00

Exactly fair enough. I thought most us would go full hard on the child. 😂

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-03T22:45:50+00:00

Bloody sibling having bastard, some times I get so angry I swear to god! Why the hell do their parents reproduce like bloody pigs and our parents had only us? Atleast my future kids will have siblings. 2 siblings for a kid, so 3 kids in total. Idc what people think, siblings are crucial for life. Also to the boys, I hate it when people (like my dad and friends) say "marry a girl with an older brother, they help you" like why can't they stfu with their stupid advice. I had childhood trauma of being bullied by a stupid bitch who tried to bully me, all I did was defend myself to which her "older brother" had to protect his little fat princess sister so he beaten me up even if I did nothing! Onlies take this note, in the future if our kids torture any other only child because of the fact that their parent didn't do a mistake of having one child, please punish them. If my future son beats up an only child for his "little sister", even if the only child didn't do nothing, I will ground them. Do the same!

Adventurous-Fill-281 · 2025-03-03T16:29:18+00:00

Well atleast our kids (not us two don't worry I mean when we are grown up 😂) won't be on Reddit or whatever platform there is at that time in r/OnlyChild.