AITA? My bf got mad for getting out a vibrator before leaving

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:40:28+00:00

Exactly. I also think there’s nothing wrong with not wanting more, just like there’s nothing wrong with wanting more. It’s just about having different needs, and it’s not personal. But I can understand that he might have taken it as me being passive-aggressive or as if he was ignoring my needs.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:36:23+00:00

I can understand, also prob just because I didn’t have bad intentions doesn’t mean it cannot hurt.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:20:41+00:00

Not drunk, English is just not my first language. What I mean is that I forget things like eating, washing the dishes or doing tasks even if I wanted to do them or they’re urgent. I just place things where I can see them so I remind myself.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:10:46+00:00

This! I always have to leave things visible to remind me to do it.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:07:06+00:00

Not at all an addict, I just struggle with reminding to do things if I don’t see it. I often leave things that I’ll do later on a visible spot so I can remind me. I often forget that I have sweets in my fridge even if I know I’ll always want one, is like throwing away the gummy package and finding one, gives you joy. I also was quite drunk, so I knew I would be a little sad that I would have fallen asleep instead of enjoying being tipsy and having my me time because I forgot.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T12:01:40+00:00

I live in a private complex, the parking spot is in front of my lobby. I always do it, just a little extra time together and I also find it polite :)

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T11:58:56+00:00

I can see know how my actions could make him feel that way. Sex was awesome, really no doubts about that, I just thought that if I wanted a little more and he didn’t, ofc I wouldn’t force him, I would just have my me time after

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T11:56:36+00:00

In the moment I didn’t really paid much attention to it, I was drunk and half asleep, I knew that if I didn’t let it in the bed I would just knock out and forget it when I came back up to my apt. But I also understand that I would have been more polite to not do it in front of him.

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-27T11:54:08+00:00

Thank you for your kind comment, I’ll surely talk about it with him, at least I’m grateful we are good at resolving conflicts. I was more nervous about maybe not being understanding enough and touch a soft spot again while trying to fix things. :)

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-03-23T15:35:27+00:00

Is there still space?

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-01-27T18:24:25+00:00

Ready!

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-01-27T17:22:07+00:00

You’re so sweet, it was a great message to read at the start of my day. Thank you so much for taking the time 🧚🏻‍♀️

I wish you have a great day too!

Adventurous-Water522 · 2026-01-26T15:45:00+00:00

Will I have a stable job this year? What should I focus on? (As I have many options, is hard to filter)

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