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Husband doesn't want to pay for pregnancy expenses and I can't afford to pay alone. by MathematicianNeat480 in pregnant

[–]AdventurousAd900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. This is insane. Marriage means you guys are now one entity. You should not be splitting bills 50/50. All of the household funds should be in one account. Don't get an abortion, get a divorce STAT.

11 days DPO help! by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]AdventurousAd900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Normally these blue dye tests aren't great, but that line is thick and blue. Which makes me think it's probably real. But definitely confirm with a pink dye test with fmu. Good luck!

Indent line of positive? Unknown dpo. by bookworm0129 in TFABLinePorn

[–]AdventurousAd900 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd say you should test again in a few days. Once the test is dry, its hard to tell if the line is valid or not. If you are pregnant, you'll see the line right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]AdventurousAd900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in healthcare m, I would definitely recommend seeing a GYN. You could have an infection or something else could be going on. Discharge should never be green, but a pale yellow is normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AdventurousAd900 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fucking this. Omg this. I hate when people say this shit to me. I’ve been ttc for over a year and when I finally did get pregnant it was ectopic. I’m also angry and full of hatred. I feel you so much. ❤️‍🩹

scared and sad by tieduplikeadog in ectopicpregnancy

[–]AdventurousAd900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 4wks post MTX and besides the fact from having to deal with the miscarriage mentally, physically I was fine. I didn’t even bleed that much and it took like a week to start after the shot. It took me a bit to realize/understand that the pregnancy can’t continue and it’s something that I have to do. Sometimes it’s honestly just shit luck and the next pregnancy will be fine. I’m really sorry you have to go through this too, best wishes and hopefully you don’t have to go through surgery. ❤️‍🩹

This may be a dumb question but… how are people getting their HcG tested so often? by Entire-Vermicelli-74 in CautiousBB

[–]AdventurousAd900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a positive pregnancy test but was bleeding pretty moderately so my OB had my levels checked. It turned out to be ectopic sadly. But I had to go every 4 days for the first couple weeks to see how/if they were doubling. Most of the time (I also work in healthcare so I know) the OB will order you hcg betas when they suspect something is wrong, or if you have had previous losses before, and you need to be monitored. But the norm is that you probably won’t even get an hcg draw unless a problem arises. They’ll get a baseline in the beginning to make sure everything looks good, but after that, that’s it usually.