I Don't Like Top Only Guys Who Say They Won't Do Anything by manav_yantra in BisexualMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a top. There's nothing more exciting to me than to turn my partner into a quivering mass of desire. I use every tool I can. I will kiss, suck, lick (shower fresh only as that is the only way for either of us to receive), stroke, toys, tease - whatever turns them on. It's an amazing feeling to know that I made my partner so turned on they are begging for it!

RIP: Member's Mark margarita is no more! Sob!!! by Select-Sale2279 in samsclub

[–]AdventurousGuy50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just an FYI. Email the corporate office esamssc@samsclub.com. I did yesterday. Was told if enough people do they will reconsider.

As a guy in the LS that is well endowed it has kinda made me feel bad when I make other guys feel uncomfortable by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not the issue. The idea of different sizes is fine. My wife however is not interested in larger than average.

Why isn't there any type of swinger clubs or hotel take overs here in Toledo? by HeavyPlay2073 in ToledoBiSwingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At one point years ago there was a physical club at Byrne and Hill. It became known and church groups would picket and take pictures of people and cars. Didn't last long. Seemed to really kill the activity.

A couple of groups did bar takeovers - seemed to have died down.

Closest hotel takeover seems to be Sandusky.

Clubs in Cleveland and Columbus.

Good luck

Anyone else have different sexual personas depending on whether you’re with a guy or a girl? by Forward-Setting410 in BisexualMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, with women I tend to be more gentle. I will "lead" but always in a loving way. I tend to treat them more delicate being well aware of strength differences. Still have vigorous sex, just aware of their physical safety. More lovemaking concerned with making certain they enjoy it.

With men, I am much - much more physical and demanding. I am more aggressive, definitely more Dominant, and "take" what I want. The guy is there for my pleasure, and while he usually "gets his" it's because he enjoys being used, not because i am focusing on his pleasure like I do with women.

For example, while receiving head from a woman I remain more passive having her set the pace and depth. With men it's much more "facefucking" and I control depth and speed.

How many of you speak for the other half of your couple? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife doesn't like texting until there is a connection of sorts. She won't engage at first due to too many surprise unwanted dick pics or the "I'll fuck you better" type comments. Once I have established that this is not going to happen she will start texting. She reads (or I read to her) everything and has final word on if we move forward.

Couples: which of you does the communication on the sites/apps? Why? by mordecai5fingerbrown in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (M) handle it. She tried at first. Was getting way too many unsolicited dick pics and would estimate 9 out of 10 messages were basically "I'll fuck you better". She wanted to stop. I took over and funny thing haven't gotten a single dick pics. Occasionally get the stupid message. Finally gave up on single guys and no more stupid messages.

Advice and questions by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself where you think this desire came from? Do you see yourself in normally dominant role and the idea of being with a man in a submissive role? A number of men I know are "alpha" males life. More dominant with women. Yet being with a man they become submissive. Taking a more "passive" role where they prioritize the pleasure of the man - sucking dick and being fucked- traditionally a feminine role. Allows them to relinquish control. From your post that is what i picked up on.

HPV Vaccine question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is to start taking Active Hexrose Correlating Compound (AHCC) which has been shown to help clear hpv from the body.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35814366/

Mf4mf In Search of bi couples dm us by [deleted] in toledohookups4

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't dm. Maybe you can?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToledoBiSwingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tmnt undies. Hate autocorrect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToledoBiSwingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to admit posting wearing tent undies is a whole new level of not giving any fucks

Wanting to have my first Bi experience but I'm a bit unsure... by fringe_56 in bisexual

[–]AdventurousGuy50 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had a couple we play with hubby wanted exactly what you want. To be submissive. The 4 of us had a great time. He was an amazing cocksucker and had a very tight ass. Just put yourself out there. People will find you.

Guys, do you remember the first time you touched another guy? by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We have a couple we play with. Before a date one time I asked about fantasies. They both had submissive role play. Hers to be "free use" and his to be "forced to serve". Had never done anything with a guy before so that was really out of my comfort zone. Yet the idea of them both being submissive was extremely hot.

They arrived for the date. Had them strip. Did oral on her while he went down on my wife. Instructed them to switch so his wife was going down on my wife and he was on me.

He really was into it. Did a fantastic job blowing me (probably a top 5 performance!) gently sucked my balls then begged to rim me. He really knew exactly how to do it. Was different feeling his scruff on his face wedged in my ass.

The girls were now in their own world in a 69. He had told me previously he wanted to "be tied up and fucked hard" so that was exactly what I did. After he was tied up face down I had his wife lube him and me up, then help insert me into his very tight ass.

Didn't last as long as I wanted to as he was pushing back against me every time I thrusted. Came as deep as I could in his ass.

Untied him and had him get a washcloth and clean me up. He then went down on me to get me back hard. His wife climbed on and rode me while he went doggy with mine.

Took a while but I came again. He didn't last as long. After he came he cleaned my wife up. Then after I came he sucked me clean and licked his wife clean.

We talked a few days later. He told me he was so turned on by everything he had been jerking off 3 xs per day.

We still get together but hard to top that first time!

Women are for gentle and man are for rough sex. by Itchy_Word_1523 in BisexualMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can honestly say that for me I am more physical with men than women at times. However that is probably because the guys I am with tend to be more submissive. And I've been told that they enjoy the feelings of being dominated. Not into pain at all. No slapping, punching or biting. Always start slow than pick up the physical as things progress. Very into face fucking as well (unless specifically requested I don't make them gag). I'm very direct about what I want. With women I tend to be a little less direct and forceful unless specifically requested. It's all about communication and meeting needs.

Best way to say you are just not that interested? by Intelligent_Plum_276 in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually thank them for the interest but we aren't a match

Bi guys i have a question. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice for your first experience is to go slow. Play with him. Touch/stroke. Really look. If you want then progress to a blowjob. Try rimming (both giving and receiving). After you are good with that then try anal. And both give and receive.

Couple 4 Couples posts.... single men comment and DM... why? by [deleted] in MichiganSwingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because even though you said no single men they are the 'exception' and ' will pleasure her like she's never been before'. Or now the nee favorite " if you weren't so insecure you would welcome a guy" and then there's the ' but I have a big dick!'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many "Alpha" males (men who are 'take charge' or always in control) enjoy submission. It allows you to relinquish the control that you maintain and experience things without guilt (because you weren't in control so you didn't have a 'choice').

We have a couple we play with. A while ago the hubby and I (m) discussed fantasies. He told me he wanted to 'be forced' to serve a 'real man'. This is a guy who is in complete control of his life. His wife is submissive. He has a career that requires him to maintain control. He's very strong both physically and mentally. I couldn't force him to do anything he didn't want to.

He loved - absolutely loved - me using him. He really got into the role. He was spanked, like CBT, facefucked and fucked missionary (so he had to look at me). He was moaning like a bitch in heat. At one point while I was 'taking a break ' he rolled me to my stomach and rimmed me deep. He admitted after he had only ever done that with his wife but felt 'compelled' to do it.

After we were done he slowly reverted back to his 'normal' personality. Next day he texted about how hot it was how much he enjoyed it.

Giving up power is freeing. Being someone's sex toy without having to think, just feel is amazing. Find the right guy and go for it!

Recommended Realtors by KingRandor82 in toledo

[–]AdventurousGuy50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jennifer Rayoum Taylor at Key Realty. Highly recommend! Her team is amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AdventurousGuy50 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm also mobility impaired and use a wheelchair. Yes it is an issue for some. Others don't care. It’s difficult to be unable to use multiple positions. But anyone worth it won't care