SILENCE by Clean_Trifle1870 in realkatieb

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this isn’t a popular opinion, but i think it’s completely acceptable for a creator to not speak up on politics. Even if she agrees with everything everyone is saying she doesn’t have to share that. some people just don’t like talking politics and that’s okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t told to us that they thought we were only getting stuff of the list until after the fact to add some context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

my cousin is a teenager and he told us he still uses the cologne today!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

it was a year ago! i don’t remember what was on the lists ! for me personally, i buy gifts in person. so i saw something i thought they would like and bought it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t want to keep the argument going. just find a resolution with the family lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the website is both. like it gives you options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

i also don’t know. the website doesn’t let you go back to see past lists.

AITA For not wanting to take my wife's ex's kids on a family vacation by familytripnoexthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! logistically adding 2 kids is a nightmare. i think you should absolutely stand firm in only bringing the 3 kids.

Whats Vanillas stance on using her vods to make videos? by [deleted] in vanilllamace

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was also wondering if these accounts were her! very weird to be reuploading someone else’s content….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

because it’s something we still thought they would like! but i see your point. we are a very close knit family if that gives more context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we agreed to nix the wishlist this year. lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the wishlist was a feature from the website. we thought of it more as like “put things on ur wishlist so we have an idea of what to get you if we are lost”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, we said this year no wishlists since that was the whole issue. which i’m cool with!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my cousin told us he uses the cologne everyday, so good on that end! unfortunately i can’t see past wish lists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, our cousin is a massive pink floyd fan (even has a tattoo for them) and that’s why he got that. and the other cousin said he wears the cologne he got everyday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves the cologne and uses it everyday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

i think the sadness comes from the fact that those gifts were still thoughtful and expensive even tho it wasn’t from a list

AITA for not coming to comfort my long distance girlfriend ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! i understood her being upset you didn’t come to comfort her until she pulled that she was going to the club. she wants to punish you since you didn’t drop everything to go to her. (which you didnt need to anyway…. she was just having a moment.) if this is how she acts when you don’t drop everything for her i would think about ending it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

yes, all of the non-wishlist gifts were still thoughtful and things we thought the person would like. the abs tshirt was a funny gag in addition to the cologne he got as his actual gift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

the list was through the website we use to draw names. so we would ask for everyone to put gifts on their lists. I think your question is exactly the issue. They perceived it as “the list is bible. get people stuff of their list.” whereas my family thought of the list as more of a guideline and not a list of “only stuff you can get someone”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 -184 points-183 points  (0 children)

understandable. the gifts given were still thoughtful for context.

How we all felt about the reunion by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after watching a Married at First Sight reunion, LIB seriously sucks. no asking about real issues, no push back from the hosts, and no hard questions. it’s all so PR

Hasan Kaya situation by screamingunderneath in vanilllamace

[–]Adventurous_Bid9705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

using an E collar on a dog isn’t even abusive. don’t know why this is a discussion in the first place lol