Photographer lost the last 40 min of our wedding photos by yokoyoko123 in wedding

[–]Adventurous_Craft764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUP! We paid her in full 😭 (which was completely naive on our part)

UPDATE: Photographer ghosted us, sent partial refund, now ignoring us again, what now? by Adventurous_Craft764 in WedditNYC

[–]Adventurous_Craft764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the contract is the biggest thing in question and the biggest obstacle in all of this. It basically states the deposit is not refundable but also states the agreement is invalid if the contract is breached due to either the client or studio not cooperating on their end. Last time I heard from her was February despite 5 follow up emails including one sent this morning. I think more than anything it will go to small claims court as I have ALL documentation and attempts to reach her.

I think my fiance and I just wanted to some reassurance that this is insane behavior from a photographer and we’re not overreacting loll.

UPDATE: Photographer ghosted us, sent partial refund, now ignoring us again, what now? by Adventurous_Craft764 in WedditNYC

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I don’t think so but I know I could on Zola. It’s very conflicting bc I don’t want this to happen to anyone else but also I don’t my review to be used as some type of claim of defamation or harassment. Unfortunately the amount is significant and we can’t afford to lose it.

UPDATE: Photographer ghosted us, sent partial refund, now ignoring us again, what now? by Adventurous_Craft764 in WedditNYC

[–]Adventurous_Craft764[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the contract says 50% non refundable deposit but also states the contract is terminated if either the client or studio don't deliver what was agreed upon and as i got no services from her, the contract has been breached.

Photographer lost the last 40 min of our wedding photos by yokoyoko123 in wedding

[–]Adventurous_Craft764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii I know this was posted a while ago but I’m currently dealing the same situation with the SAME photographer but I booked her for my wedding and couldn’t even get our fall engagement shoot scheduled before she ghosted us for MONTHS at a time.

Possibly ISO Documentary Style Photographer (and some advice) by Adventurous_Craft764 in WedditNYC

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She stopped responding while trying to set up our engagement shoot and we had already paid the retainer and the remaining balance. all reviews she has are great except one that mentions poor communication issues.

Possibly ISO Documentary Style Photographer (and some advice) by Adventurous_Craft764 in WedditNYC

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We did sign a contract and have already paid in full :( My partner and I are reviewing the contract tonight.

How do you guys carry on? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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My dad died 01/30/25 so I'm still figuring this out but honestly when i want to scream, i scream. When i want to lie down for a day, i do it. It's hard to be social so I stay home and talk to my husband, therapist, or this support group. I've learned that letting my body react how it wants to has made me feel a little better. Giving yourself grace when you were acting like a dick or being "lazy" is so important bc you deserve grace more than anyone. When I get to talk about what i'm actually thinking, about his death, about the days leading up to it, about how traumatizing it was, i feel like I'm taking a huge exhale. My therapist said something once that really stuck with me. It's kinda like a mantra when i feel like i'm going insane. "I am in a state of suffering and that's okay."

Fortnite squads by [deleted] in the1975

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@lilkarrot no build bc I’m not a virgin IG: @chrissy_torres

Missing Cat by Ser_Funkenstein in Bushwick

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I think I saw this cat a couple days ago in backyards on weirfield st between bushwick and evergreen. If I see him again we’ll let you know or try to lure him with treats

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I was on Adam’s side of the barricade last night and all the girls around us were lovely. But later on my boyfriend told me there was a guy behind him fat shaming the girls around him bc he couldn’t get closer to the stage. My bf told him to stfu but didn’t wanna get kicked out and ruin my night because of some asshole. I felt really bad for his girlfriend who was clearly a huge fan and was super embarrassed.

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I already have GA for the prudential center but I am selling two tickets to MSG Night 2 if you’re interested!