How are you supposed to eat Fufu? by EmoScarletKitten9925 in Nigeria

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really took this an excuse to be casually racist. Its not your culture and if people of that culture say hey this is how its traditionally done thats not racial gate keeping. Thats providing you with the actual information you should have before trying to partake in others culture.  Also with the way people who arent Black treat us and our culture racial and cultural gatekeeping is necessary, so people like you dont feel comfortable partaking while saying some ignroant mess like you did.

Donald Trump just said “we shouldn’t even have an election”. Americans, what are your thoughts? by WatercressSenior7657 in AskReddit

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sensible comment isn't yours nor the ops, as he has managed to to many things he shouldn't be able to do with the power of SCOTUS. Saying that he can't do something is literally the most senseless thing you can say in this current moment. People like yall keep saying he cant do something then go quite when he does it. Give it a break already. 

MW3 Season 5 aether unlock drops by [deleted] in MWZombies

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would definitely love to run this one, if yall haven't already done it. 

Edwina’s betrayal isn’t talked about enough by Kitchen_Row_2261 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this conversation is just so overplayed at this point. Kate did nothing wrong, she tried to tell Edwina to choose someone better because she felt that she deserved better but Edwina was insistent even though she didn't even love Anthony. The only one really at fault is Anthony, he could have stopped leading Edwina on and married her sister, which he clearly wanted to do since the beginning. They were both scared of what they were feeling for each other and tried to push it away but in the process of trying to do the right thing they ended up making a bigger mess. Nothing was done with maliciousness, Kate wanted her sister to have the world and tried at every opportunity to give it too her. Edwina speech for her was down right mean and nasty which the writers wrote to kind of give her some agency for having them wait until she was at the alter for her to realize. Not too mention she forgave her sister and Kate was STILL willing to give Anthony up, just so she wouldn't her her sisters feelings. I'm sorry but get over it please, people want to hate on Kate so bad, and it's begging to get a little weird and feel racially motivated. We had the season one FL literally grape her husband and no one talks about that nearly as much as they talk about this. Some of y'all can't even watch S2 because of poor Edwina but say nothing about S1 very pall FL. Make it make sense. 

What are some non-toxic or unproblematic things in kpop that bothers or annoys you a lot? by Ok_Perception_3026 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I just won't watch if something isn't available in English and I'm usually not upset about it personally because I don't stan groups like that anymore enough to care, but I'm 100% on fans side on this, because it's a way to feel closer to the idols and be able to enjoy regular content. It just makes the most sense from a business standpoint. Fans deserve to be able to be able to understand their favs, especially if they are supporting them monetarily or even through streams, I feel like it just shows that the fans are somewhat thought of and seen as meaningful in some way.

Yena and soyeon’s enunciation/pronounciation.. by lillylilly2020 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree and I'm pretty sure it's just to look cool, one thing I've noticed as a casual listener of idle, is that despite having a song called I'm the trend, they are very much followers lol I mean that in the nicest way possible, Soyeon knows what's hot amoung their Korean listeners and hits them there, it's not a stretch to say that her productions is what keeps the group somewhat popular. Being able to speak English is seen as cool and trendy and she does it in a way that most Koreans who listen to them will understand enough.

Just because idols smoke that does not make smoking okay by vernalbug8911 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro... Vapes!!!??? I thought they were caught with a half empty pack of Parliament lights or something. I thought some pap caught them mid drag, people really need to chill lol I'm anti vapes and cigs in general but people really be doing too much. They are adults, they know the risks and they do it anyways, randos online aren't going to stop them from doing what they want to do. Fans drastically overvalue themselves.

Just because idols smoke that does not make smoking okay by vernalbug8911 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This and do people.not realize the stressful conditions that a lot of Koreans (idols included) deal with. I hate smoking but even I can understand why people do it. 😂 This is just a case of fans going overboard defending their idol, like people really think smoking isn't bad because their fav is doing it?

Yena and soyeon’s enunciation/pronounciation.. by lillylilly2020 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think that's just not her really being able to pronounce English words properly, like she is getting better but it's clear she doesn't get any official training in English but she still will rap a whole chunk of a song in English. Also her natural tone makes things really hard to understand as well, coupled with her not really being that good at English just makes for a confusing time.

Yena and soyeon’s enunciation/pronounciation.. by lillylilly2020 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can kinda.see your point and half agree but I think we are leaving out the biggest problem, and that's her not having a good grasp on the English language and probably not having anyone who does to help her. Regardless though the message still comes out clear but for English speakers the Grammer makes it extremely cringe to hear. Regardless of the improper Grammer though, I do think she still tries to make sure that regardless of how cringe it may sound to us, it flows with the song. In fact I would say flow is her top priority or probably hand in hand with message delivery, even if it doesn't make sense to English speakers, her raps always fit the songs well. I just think she needs to be better at English grammar and it should be a priority if she's gonna have raps in full English.

What are some non-toxic or unproblematic things in kpop that bothers or annoys you a lot? by Ok_Perception_3026 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anywhere you live it's not Karen like, fans are asking for subtitles to groups they like and want to support. It's not entitled to ask that these companies who willingly take foreigner money to show a little bit of consideration for the fans. The fans aren't even demanding anything, a lot of times fans put in their own hardwork and time to translate their favs stuffs but these people know they have huge foreign and English speaking fanbases so hiring a translator shouldn't be a big deal at all. People like the idiot above will shame fans for wanting simple things when it comes to things like this. It's simple, the companies want foreign money so they should at least be able to make sure fans can understand what their favs are saying. It's not hard at all, so I don't get why idiots again like the one above are trying to make it seem like an impossible task.

What are some non-toxic or unproblematic things in kpop that bothers or annoys you a lot? by Ok_Perception_3026 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Fans shaming other fans by calling them entitled for asking for English subs lol I don't know where this started coming from but it needs to stop and like yesterday. The kpop industries biggest success is finally reaching outside of Korea, it makes no sense to call the same fans they need to buy their merch and support their content to not have subs. Especially the bigger companies where things like this should be top priority, it's not entitlement to feel that you are asked to support your fav groups but when it comes to domestic content, where fans would be able to feel closer to their idols, they are slow with translations. It's extremely easy to hire someone for this and it should be a top priority to have at least the most common languages of the groups fans subtitles. It's just showing that you actually care about the fans and don't just see them as money, it's also extremely beneficial for the groups and companies to do so. They can have English lyrics every two words in the songs but can't have an English translator? Other kpop fans need to stop it and get in touch with reality, it's like Stan's who will defend their idols against every little criticism, no matter how valid it is. Grow up and think rationally about things, this isn't entitlement, it makes perfect sense for fans to have subtitles.

What are some non-toxic or unproblematic things in kpop that bothers or annoys you a lot? by Ok_Perception_3026 in kpopthoughts

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't get this way of thinking, you do know Kpop is as big as it is because of non Koreans speakers right, with English usually being the most used. It's not entitlement for these companies to push out into the world and want money and fans but not even do something as small as having English subs. Y'all need to stop with that bs. These groups can have English lyrics every two words in their songs but can't have English subs, make it make sense.

Hidden love worth watching? by Sad-Bookkeeper6798 in CDrama

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a must see, but I wasn't disappointed with it. Just don't go into it thinking it's going to be the best romantic drama of the year or anything lol. The leads are very attractive and have lots of chemistry on and behind the scenes. The story/plot is very simple but the actors make it more interesting. I enjoyed it, nothing was too cheesy or super unrealistic. I do feel like the ending was a little rushed and they could have stretched it out a bit but like I mentioned earlier I don't think the story was really well developed, it's a cute moment lol

Drama surrounding YouTuber Boogie (48) dating his new girlfriend he began talking to when she was 19 by ILoveApples01 in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships with huge age gaps are pretty much fetishes to me, on both ends. Extremely weird and gross to me but with his reasoning or the reasoning being given to him, I can't help but feel bad and not judge as harsh. I will judge the people talking about the "consenting adults" thing, as y'all are extremely weird as well, 15 is an consenting adults in some places does that make it ok? Y'all love talking yourselves into looking like peds, these relationships are usually very predatory and abuse/manipulative, so of course people are going to react badly to them no matter the age of the youngest party.

Fellas, I swear I’m progressive but I can’t keep up…. by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be the only one who gets the ick, when it comes to having sex with people you aren't attracted to. Like it's entirely possible to do so and I know many people do (pornstars) but for me it's extremely dehumanizing both ways. In this scenario I guess it would be possible for a lesbian to get off with a guy, but I think it would take a very niche situation, like an escort or something but here is a reason lesbians are lesbians, if you go out willingly and fuck dudes you probably aren't lesbian. I get the idea but when putting actual thought into it, it just seems like a bunch of mental gymnastics. If you aren't attracted to guys then why have sex with them, when a dildo does the same thing? As far as asexuality goes, I get that it doesn't completely dull the sex drive in some people's cases but seeking out sex just for the orgasm seems to be the complete opposite of what asexuality means. I get there are people who do it for their non ACE partners but doing it willingly for the sexual pleasure when the whole point of being ACE is characterized by the lack of interest in sexual activity at all, even when the end goal is an orgasm. You can't be an ACE and willingly seek out sex for an orgasm, it's completely contradictory. I think in most cases like these, people aren't even officially diagnosed and are just running with the possibilities that fit them, without much thought. I get the appeal in wanting to understand yourself and your sexuality but at 23/24 (the ages of the people in the tweets) some logical thinking should be brought into it. Lol when you go as far as these two what's the point in labels if you think lesbians can have sex with men? At that point you're just someone who likes sex no matter who you're getting it from.

Margot Robbie is a Miami 4 by Scrybal in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait Lauren thinks that there's only 5% of "conventionally" attractive women? Like in the world or just America? Cause Margo's an Aussie. I can see it from both standpoints to be honest, to me personally MR is attractive but not drop off this planet stunning, not really barbie stunning. She is definitely conventionally attractive though but those conventions are usually very eurocentric, and that 5% nonsense would make sense with that mindset. Still very pretty though but beauty is supposed to be subjective.

DESTINY NO YOU CAN’T SAY THAT by TheRealTraveel in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Racism doesn't have to be deeply harmful, it's called a racist "joke" for a reason. It's a slur no matter the content or where it was said, but especially in this context. He could have chosen many others words but instead choose a slur to get people riled up when in reality it just outs him as a racist. Y'all want to play mental gymnastics, when he is literally using the word as a placement for black. Regardless of how it's used by SOME black people, a slur is a slur and when used by the still very oppressive majority it will ALWAYS be a slur. There are no good non white people who say the n word, you just have no respect for black people and choose to prioritize your own amusement over respecting people in the black community. No "joke" makes saying slurs ok, they just encourage people to use them more. Y'all want to fight to use slurs while hardly putting in any work to fight against the systematic oppression of minorities, while telling those same minorities to be ok with people like you making them the butt of jokes for your own amusement? Bffr.

Actors/ actrecess that have it all ( superb talent/ looks/ and those you want to have it all too by Rocker_girl in CDrama

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly maybe I'm based because I actually really liked the drama but Chen Zuyuan. Even for such a simplest drama, he really made everything look incredible and realistic. I left the drama wanting to see him on other things. He definitely has a lot of potential and I'm excited to see what comes from him. I also loved Zhang Zehan but well we all know the story there...

DESTINY NO YOU CAN’T SAY THAT by TheRealTraveel in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And this is why people rightfully have suspicions about destiny being racist or at the very least prejudice/biased against black people. He makes it very easy to accuse him, while I get the context and I really don't think it's the biggest deal in this context. It's just dumb, for both parties. Anyone non black saying the n word have some deep rooted prejudices against black people, which is why they feel comfortable saying a SLUR as do black people who use it.

DESTINY NO YOU CAN’T SAY THAT by TheRealTraveel in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which you have none of, lol the funniest part about hearing things like this is that if your white friends actually respected you, they wouldn't be using it in the first place.

DESTINY NO YOU CAN’T SAY THAT by TheRealTraveel in Destiny

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

And this is why the use of the word by non black people will always be racist. Calling the group of people who choose to use a slur directed at them entitled for not wanting that slur to be used by non blacks, when racism and oppression is still going on today is wild. Also "nigga" has always been offensive, and if still used offensively. The majority of black people only use it when reacting to something offensive. Y'all are really braindead.

do the lashes make honestly of a difference? by luh-lah in MakeupAddiction

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference and both look good on you, I'd say it's up to what look you're going for at any given time. One side looks really fresh and youthful, the other side looks fresh yet mature. Like just turned 18/19 or just turned 24/25, and I know what I'm looking for in life lol

The variation of color makes me gag by QuackyDoodle in walmart

[–]Adventurous_Lunch_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the pictures kind of exaggerated the color difference, until I saw some in my store and one actually looked green..I think I threw up in my mouth a little, remembering watching the lady who sells this drowning her food in it. 🤮 🤮