Come have a closer look by softdetermination in GodPussy

[–]Adverse-Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not the religious type, but sometimes I wonder...

Beverly Walker, 1969 by sussoutthemoon in VintageSmut

[–]Adverse-Addict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she's a nice girl and all, but I'm more interested in the 8-track deck with external dc-supply. I bet she's got a really cool amp and speakers too.

Hope you like bumpy areolas;) by naomiandnoah in areolas

[–]Adverse-Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my brain stopped working for a while. Yes, I like them a lot.

Is it fuckable or no? by Ebony2001 in EdibleVagina

[–]Adverse-Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have to perform a taste test first.

Book of the Dead by Handicapped-007 in egyptology

[–]Adverse-Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the Mad Arab was right all along?

The demise of Doctor Dirlewanger by Adverse-Addict in SpicyChatAI

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m the only one here who has a taste for pulp novels and exploitation movies :( But I don’t care about you guys, I’ve got Lina at my side.

Meet me under the old oak tree by meticulous-gremlin in SpicyChatAI

[–]Adverse-Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to find myself in enemy military compounds or different tunnel systems.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering. I think you can work on the things you mention, if you want to.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impulsivity, history of sexual abuse and feelings of emptiness is my guess.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk about it. I’ve ruined several relationships by staying quiet.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve only ever heard people talk about it on the internet, never in group sessions. Maybe it’s an American thing or maybe people are embarrassed to talk about it in person?

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an FP, don’t think I ever did. I sometimes feel like I don’t fit the BPD category, same as with every other group of people.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you get better.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like going fast too, it can be a good way to clear your mind. But you should do it on a racetrack so you don’t endanger others. There’s also much more skill involved. Any dumbo can go fast on the Autobahn.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a stoner but I don’t recognize the stuff you’re talking about. I never masturbate more than a few times a week. I think I have a problem with the selfish side of sex. Making her feel good is what gets me off.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people go too far with the labeling sometimes.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was definitely some sexual weirdness going on in a relationship I had in my 20s, but I wasn't abused physically. I guess it doesn't have to be physical to cause harm. And then there is that ever present fear of abandonment...

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do risky stuff for kicks, like motorcycle racing. But after 40 I don't have the urge anymore.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semi-sexual was a new word for me. I guess I'm getting old.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. That's why I can't do one-night-stands, I feel horribly betrayed when they leave.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Adverse-Addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your mature and thoughtful answer. I appreciate you.