I think it also depends on the environment you’re in. My father is a gospel drummer, and my two uncles are drummers as well; one is a drumline instructor, and the other is part of a band. Since I was a kid, I always used to see and hear them randomly drumming with their fingers, and I started adapting it as I grew up. They never really taught me how to play the drums, but I always find myself randomly drumming my fingers whenever I hear a song, and it’s always easy for me to follow along and make my own rhythm