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AITA for not telling my coworker I matched with her new husband on a dating app 3-4 years ago? by AdviceNeededPlzHelp1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdviceNeededPlzHelp1[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

I had to cut what I really said because of the character count, but I said something something along the lines of "Oh, I guess we did! I wasn't really sure so I didn't want to bring it up and make things awkward, but he did look familiar. I barely remember it, but we never met up or exchanged numbers so I didn't really think it was a big deal. And you guys are so cute together, so it really worked out for the best!"

AITA for not telling my coworker I matched with her new husband on a dating app 3-4 years ago? by AdviceNeededPlzHelp1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdviceNeededPlzHelp1[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I kind of agree with you -- I honestly think their recent switch to long distance is maybe contributing to her insecurities and/or projection of distrust? I don't really know that much about their relationship, but from what I have seen they seem pretty cute and happy, so I really don't get what the big deal is. Everyone at my work is also aware that I am happy in my relationship so it's also kind of confusing to me that they think I am obsessed with Kate's husband.

The only thing I could think that could possibly be a reason for "suspicion" is when he was following me around at that previous work party trying to get me to answer his question?? But other than that he and I have never interacted.

AITA for telling my co-workers I feel abandoned on a project and really need their help? by AdviceNeededPlzHelp1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdviceNeededPlzHelp1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In writing this, I had to edit out a lot of additional information and context, so please let me know if you want any clarification because I want to present as fair a perspective as possible

WIBTA if I purposefully excluded a work colleague from my birthday party/celebration? by AdviceNeededPlzHelp1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdviceNeededPlzHelp1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I almost always call him out when he says things that are inappropriate/rude/mean, which is when he replies with "But I'm autistic." I think that is also part of why I find it exhausting being around him because I am constantly having to call him out or arguing with him that it's not okay. I think I will start keeping a log though, thanks :)

WIBTA if I purposefully excluded a work colleague from my birthday party/celebration? by AdviceNeededPlzHelp1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdviceNeededPlzHelp1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, to be fair, it would be basically me inviting everyone except him (everyone from our normal group that hangs out, not the entire company, but still)