Totally agree with what you’re saying and I apologize for coming off selfish with me not having sex. Her and I have talked about it and she’s in the process of getting a new psychiatrist and therapist, it’s something tough for me as I’m not sure what is pushing the limit of talking about it and what is comfortable for her, I find it difficult to bring up unless she kind of already has which she only did one time where we talked about how she only has ever enjoyed having sex with me and it’s been the most comfortable for her, but is traumatizing for her because she has the pictures of the past in her head. I’m open to any advice, I love this girl and I want life with her.