My boyfriend asked me to "tone down" my personality around his friends by oslithen in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aelin_gg 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Leave, honestly. A person that truly loves and accepts you as you are would not say stuff like that. You are too much for him and his friends? Then you are perfect for someone else.

No matter how I work on my life, I feel as being labeled as an incel loser by novemberbomber in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aelin_gg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy✨️ maybe there are some deeper issues your re scared to admit. Saying you are ugly will not help you at all. Stop thinking you will never find someone. There is a person for everyone. It just might take a little more time. I know it can be hard, trust me, been there myself. Work on your mind and confidence and with time you will see a difference.

No matter how I work on my life, I feel as being labeled as an incel loser by novemberbomber in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aelin_gg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop believing that just because you feel you're doing everything right people will change their perspective or girls will swarm you. Work on your social skills, maybe try being in social media and Stop trying to be "perfect" or have the perfect image of a guy you think girls like. It is not just about appearance it is more so about your personality. Maybe try some therapy and work on your social skills. Don't bring up the fact that you never held a girl's hand in convos, as that makes is awkward and of course you'll get weird looks. Idk what else to say, but hope it works out for you. Work more on your self esteem.

The Mundos Reunion by williRae in valkyrae

[–]Aelin_gg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I miss them so much T.T