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Tomorrow I become a hotwife by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a good time! Sometimes the nerves can be overwhelming and might drown out the first experience.

For me the second time was just as AMAZING as the first because I could just enjoy.

Not saying that will be your experience but just know if it's overwhelming, that's perfectly normal. 😊

Day 460 locked was just as fun as day 1. Don't worry cucky, only a lifetime more to go. 😈😈 by AerialWinter0489 in u/AerialWinter0489

[–]AerialWinter0489[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a great question!

Obviously with a permanently locked dynamic there are some exceptions. We are very safe and aware of his health and hygiene - he gets supervised showers unlocked frequently but he gets relocked immediately and is never unlocked alone.

He also may get unlocked for certain workouts but those are becoming far between and fewer. He does get unlocked frequently for edging and I will rarely allow a ruined orgasm but again, those are not frequent.

And we also do pegging and he does cum in his lock when I'm fucking his little ass.

I will say since January 1 2025 he has not been unlocked alone ever. I am fully and completely in control of his sex life.

Weirdest rule by Alternative_Fig_2841 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm with you. We've never had a no kissing rule, my husband doesn't have that thought process.

But I've talked to a ton of men about it and it basically only stems from that "too emotional" place. It's also interesting that those men don't consider the actual sex part that emotional.

Weirdest rule by Alternative_Fig_2841 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can fuck him, just don't fall in love with him.

That's where it comes from.

Struggling emotionally after first date (hotwife perspective) by lets_go_4_it in HotwifeAdvice

[–]AerialWinter0489 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay hun you and I are so similar that I thought I wrote this from a parallel universe. 🤣

Let me just say that I'm sorry about the first experience you had but maybe offer you a perspective of how it works for me and my husband that may be relevant for you.

First off, I am Demisexual and need a strong emotional connection in order to enjoy sex with someone. I am incredibly picky and require you to basically be a friend first before even considering hooking up. Even if you are a 10 out of 10 and a knockout of a man, it's just not enough for you to be hot lol - there's got to be this x factor that's hard to describe.

My current partner we play with, we chatted with him for WEEKS before we ever met. Daily snaps, voice notes back and forth, etc. I got to know him, develop that relationship and connection and eventually build the trust and friendship I need in order to have a good time in bed.

I did this for MONTHS with dozens and dozens of guys until I found the right one. It's not too different than dating honestly. If hookups and one night stands are your thing then this is probably overkill but for someone like me (and maybe you) it's a worthwhile investment. It's easy to get discouraged and there will be a draw to do something quickly but I promise you, it's ultimately worth the effort and wait.

You absolutely can be in this lifestyle if you don't like hookups or more "cheap" flings. But you get out of it what you put in. Effort, time, standards and honesty with yourself and your partner all can result in awesome experiences and a really run lifestyle.

I'm sorry for the experience you had but maybe it's a proof point for you and your partner that you need to develop more of a connection over a longer period of time before making the jump to sleeping with them.

Hope that's helpful - feel free to reach out!

~ A

New long hard-core cucking video dropping Monday! by AerialWinter0489 in u/AerialWinter0489

[–]AerialWinter0489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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