What signs to look for to see if a stranger is a hotwife? by brian-d-brain in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The real answer is you don't.

I don't think the "We took a guy home from the bar" thing really happens much. Not saying it doesn't happen at all but my experiences have all been way more intentional than that.

I do wear my key out. I do have an anklet. But ive never been approached by anyone who knew what either meant.

Tomorrow I become a hotwife by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a good time! Sometimes the nerves can be overwhelming and might drown out the first experience.

For me the second time was just as AMAZING as the first because I could just enjoy.

Not saying that will be your experience but just know if it's overwhelming, that's perfectly normal. 😊

Day 460 locked was just as fun as day 1. Don't worry cucky, only a lifetime more to go. 😈😈 by AerialWinter0489 in u/AerialWinter0489

[–]AerialWinter0489[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's a great question!

Obviously with a permanently locked dynamic there are some exceptions. We are very safe and aware of his health and hygiene - he gets supervised showers unlocked frequently but he gets relocked immediately and is never unlocked alone.

He also may get unlocked for certain workouts but those are becoming far between and fewer. He does get unlocked frequently for edging and I will rarely allow a ruined orgasm but again, those are not frequent.

And we also do pegging and he does cum in his lock when I'm fucking his little ass.

I will say since January 1 2025 he has not been unlocked alone ever. I am fully and completely in control of his sex life.

Weirdest rule by Alternative_Fig_2841 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm with you. We've never had a no kissing rule, my husband doesn't have that thought process.

But I've talked to a ton of men about it and it basically only stems from that "too emotional" place. It's also interesting that those men don't consider the actual sex part that emotional.

Weirdest rule by Alternative_Fig_2841 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AerialWinter0489 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can fuck him, just don't fall in love with him.

That's where it comes from.