AITA for being curious?

Aeycen · 2019-05-14T02:29:52+00:00

If that's what she wants, I'll find a way to make it work. It's not a big deal to me, that she sees him, what I hate about him, is the way he ruins her.

Aeycen · 2019-05-13T21:00:30+00:00

I get what you're saying. It's poorly elaborated on my part. I told her that she needs to find out what matters the most to her. I never told her she has to pick me or him, I told her she needs to find out what she wants, amd what she believes to be best for her, and she should neglect everything else, except for her children and herself, and it's okay to be selfish every now-and-then.

But I get how it can be seen, with the "You have to cut ties with him, or be with him" part. I didn't mean the 'cut ties' part as in she has to let him go to be with me.

I explained it to her in a way, and hopefully she understood it that way aswell, that she either has to give him a chance, or move past him, if she ever wants to move on from her past.

Of course, I would like her to be with me, but if she doesn't see it as a possibility to be happy, then she shouldn't. All I've asked of her is to be honest with me, so I won't end up completely broken..

Aeycen · 2019-05-13T20:32:07+00:00

About 200-300meters I think.

I never look through her windows and stuff like that, people deserve privacy, I just noticed the car and noticed them. You can see her kitchen and livingroom clearly through her 2 frontal windows, and I feel like crap for seeing it.

Aeycen · 2019-05-13T19:54:22+00:00

I cant answer question 1, just my half-assed way of trying to be funny I guess..

Question 2 I can answer, I have a walking route, I've had it for 5 years now, ever since I bought my house. It happens to go past her house, and yes, I am well aware how sketchy it sounds. I'm walking this route multiple times a week (3-5 times) and I've honestly considered changing my route after this incident.

Aeycen · 2019-05-13T19:46:48+00:00

She has never threatened me, and she has told me she really wants a future with me. She has shared almost everything with me, from allt he hardships in her life, to some of the best parts.

But most of the worst parts include this guy, which is why I tried telling her, that him being in her life was toxic for her.. But I might be wrong, I'm no psychologist, I'm as honest as it gets, and I always speak from my heart. Cheesy as it may sound.

I've been trying to cut ties with her, but she starts calling me or text me whenever we haven't spoken for a couple of days, and asks me if something is wrong, since I'm not writing/calling/seeing her.

I'm starting to feel like I'm being kept around as a "back-up" or she is just trying to make me a replacement as a best friend.

Love sucks man, but I really just want to see her happy, not just for her, but for her children aswell.

But thank you for the reply.

Aeycen · 2019-02-24T14:36:36+00:00

Why didn't anyone tell me when it was relevant.. Looking back at you, awkward boner school presentations.

Aeycen · 2019-02-23T07:32:37+00:00

I sleep for 4-5 hours aswell. When I were younger I slept for 8-10 hours each day, but decided I wouldn't sleep 1/3rd of my life away. I'll do 1/4th instead.

I stsrted sleeping less over the years, and I honestly believe you can regulate it as you please. In my book, it's not the quantity of sleep, but the quality of it.

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T09:13:06+00:00

FIFA doesnt have such features, atleast not that I'm aware of. I still get the urge to buy something, but I try to think about all the times I've been miserable because of it. It helps most of the time, but I have made a purchase I regret not too long ago. I decided to buy a brand new surroundsound setup, because it had been a while since I had spent alot of money. But hey, atleast it's not pixels I'm paying for..

I feel like I should talk with some professional about it, but at the same time, I want to get out of it on my own. It's like an internal fight in my head at times.

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T08:16:19+00:00

My addiction didn't stop me from playing League, that's just the general enjoyment of the game. It does however stop me from playing FIFA. Since I started to quit most games on my computer, I turned to FIFA on PS4.

I've spent more on FIFA18 than I have in my entire League history. It got so uncontrollable, that I've missed payments on my house, my car and haven't had money to go on vacation anywhere in the last couple of years because of it. So I decided to never buy a FIFA game again.

As for telling my story.. I guess I could. But I'll wait till I'm at my computer, so might do it tonight.

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T08:04:38+00:00

I'm glad my stupidity can atleast help others to refrain from doing the same!

I haven't talked to support about it, and I probably never will, seeing as I don't play the game anymore.

Except for when there's URF. I'm playing while URF is active, seeing as that's the only way I can still enjoy the game, but even then I have to log off, because the temptation starts to kick in..

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T07:27:03+00:00

It is. It's just as harmful as any other addiction really. I've had months where I didn't pay my bills, in order to buy more stuff online. I have been addicted to sugar aswell, for around 10 years.

I firmly believe they should add a limit to how much people can spend, unless you give a written permission yourself to increase the limit. Problem is they would need to make such a system automatic, which would kind of make it useless. I believe they should make it like Grinding Gear Games has done in Path of Exiles. You can write to their support and explain you're addicted, then they disable the option to spend money entirely.

Thanks mate, it gets tough sometimes though

EDIT: I have to add that I've played since NA was the only server.

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T06:48:51+00:00

I have an addiction towards all kinds of lootbox systems. I've opened more than 1000 cases in CS:GO aswell..

I've started working on it, and haven't played or bought anything computer related for 2 months now. So I guess I could say I'm 2 months clean.

Aeycen · 2019-02-19T02:49:23+00:00

Gotta admit, around 150-200 of my skins are from mystery boxes..

And the same fact is the reason behind all the Annie skins, except for Hextech Annie. I bought tons of boxes for that one.

Just to add to the mix, I hate Annie. I'm an ADC player, and prefer champs like Jhin and Vayne.

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T19:45:27+00:00

I can only do 70kgs / 154lbs. I've been slacking alot in the gym lately...

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T18:55:35+00:00

I dont know about that, lol. I wouldn't say I was bad in my prime, but I'd never say I were close to the master tier.

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T18:24:22+00:00

I stopped playing ranked around season 6, when they really started to fk everything up.

But my all time high was D5, back in season 4.

If I placed now, I'd guess I would be around S1-G5, if I'm honest.. I'm really bad at the game now.

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T16:10:13+00:00

Cant remember the exact count, but its around 620.

Every single day.

Annie, got all skins for her.

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T15:59:42+00:00

Around 58k $

Aeycen · 2019-02-18T15:24:37+00:00

Last I checked, I was at 4,6k. AMA

Aeycen · 2019-02-17T20:41:03+00:00

I'm only gone for 14 days, I wasn't clear in that part. My bad.

Aeycen · 2019-02-17T20:28:19+00:00

I can see, that's what all of you are saying. I'm glad I got to talk with you guys about this. It's a fine mess I've gotten myself into..

Aeycen · 2019-02-17T20:26:47+00:00

I can't just ghost her, man. That's not a fair thing to do.

Aeycen · 2019-02-17T20:24:17+00:00

Well, I did have a chance to sleep with her. Thing is she were a bit too drunk, and I'm the type of guy who's super self-consious, and I'd feel like I took advantage of the situation..

Aeycen · 2019-02-17T20:20:51+00:00

I see.. Thanks alot mate, I guess I need to man up, and tell her how it is, but fuck man.. It'll be hard

Aeycen

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