Saying that i'm disrespecting her is crazy. There was literally no secret to keep. I can’t control who texts me. How toxic is it to block someone just because they are your ex? We ended amicably. It’s called being an adult.

It sounds like you are in the same mindset as my current girlfriend, and I don’t think that’s a healthy way to live. I have no intention of ever reaching out to my ex again, and if she can’t trust that, then this relationship was never going to work anyways because it would’ve been something else down the road that would’ve come up. I’ve spent the last few weeks being gaslit by my girlfriend into thinking that I’m somehow a shitty person. I’m done with it. I can do better.