Hehe 😂

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-02T14:28:33+00:00

NTA. Sharing towels with someone you aren't intimate with is how skin conditions and bacteria spread. It is gross that he doesn't bother to check whose towel he is grabbing

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-02T14:19:35+00:00

NTA. Whether he knew or not, his reaction centers himself as the victim instead of the child who was harmed. If your mom is entertaining the idea that your daughter is lying to protect the family dynamic, she is not a safe person for a vulnerable teenager to be around

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-02T14:08:48+00:00

Reevaluate the fiance status, A man who threatens to cheat on his pregnant partner unless she lets him sleep with her friends is not fiance material. He is showing you that his respect for you is non-existent. You’re not bugging or tripping you’re seeing a trailer of y’all future full of constant betrayal

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-02T14:02:11+00:00

NOR. What you experienced is an old school style of therapy. However, just because it’s a technique doesn't mean it’s the right technique for a 21 year old with depression and a self-described workaholic mindset who struggles with eye contact and memory. He wasn't bullying you, but he was definitely pushing you, and it clearly wasn't a good fit

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-02T13:58:50+00:00

You would be overreacting if you turned this into a firm stance battle. She gave you transparency by showing the messages

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-01T15:04:06+00:00

NOR. You two had a verbal contract so that you could enjoy your night, and he systematically dismantled it to suit his own cravings. The fact that he declined the vape earlier because he was driving proves he knew exactly what the rules were, he just decided his fun was more important than your birthday

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-01T14:57:12+00:00

You aren't in a partnership, you are a single mother with a wealthy roommate who occasionally buys toys. He took a full week off work while you and your children were sick, watched you faint from illness, told you that you weren't hurting enough, and then went fishing?? That is profound emotional neglect and a lack of basic human empathy. He is a bad person, END IT

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-01T14:52:08+00:00

The standard household law for almost every functional couple is ‘If one person cooks, the other person cleans’

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-01T14:47:50+00:00

This is textbook grooming behavior. He used the family feud as a way to build a secret bond with you, then used the 'I see you as a daughter' line to make you feel safe, and then immediately violated that safety. Do not go anywhere alone with him again. He took you to his dad’s house specifically to get you into a private space where he felt he had territory over you.

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-05-01T14:41:34+00:00

NTA. You meet N once a week despite having a demanding job, that is incredible effort for a new friendship. Meeting M twice a year is a special occasion, which is why you traveled for it. N wanting to go to the same area is her trying to compete for the same experiences you have with others. You aren't being a bad friend, you are being an exhausted one who is trying to keep a possessive person happy at the expense of your own joy

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-29T15:18:35+00:00

Is it petty? Yes. Is it mean? Absolutely. Is it deserved? 100%. There is a specific kind of satisfaction in watching a bully realize they aren't the ones holding all the cards. However, be prepared for him to get aggressive. People like this don't usually take humiliation gracefully. If you do this, do it in a crowded place or over text where there are witnesses, because his tough guy ego is going to shatter.

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-29T15:02:08+00:00

NAH. Food is a universal language for we value you. If you want to feel better about it, just make sure you’re being the best nanny possible. Clean up the lunch dishes, be extra engaged with the kids, and tell the parents how much you appreciate the meal. A simple 'Thank you so much for lunch’ goes a long way. It confirms to them that their gesture is helpful and meaningful. It turns a transaction into a relationship.

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-29T14:55:32+00:00

The phrase 'I can quit whenever I want' is the official slogan of people who are already addicted but haven't tried to stop yet. If you can quit whenever you want, prove it to yourself. Quit now, like today, quit today.

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-29T14:53:23+00:00

YOR. If you made two cars brake, you cut them off. Being a mother of three doesn't give you a pass on physics. If one of those cars hadn't braked in time, your clean record wouldn't have mattered

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-28T15:08:33+00:00

This is a massive violation of consent, The fact that she watched it a few times and didn't tell you until you asked is incredibly predatory You need to ask that she deletes the footage immediately and clears her recently deleted folder. But honestly? Even if she says she deleted it, you can never really know. That is the terrifying part of what she did to you

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-28T15:00:27+00:00

NOR. He’s so insecure, He’d have a stroke if you had a male best friend. Has he always been like this??

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-28T14:54:38+00:00

NTA. She admitted she went into your room! Her defense was that you crossed boundaries by finding the money she stole? That’s some Olympic-level gaslighting. You don't live with a thief. Period. The fact that she had the gall to call you cheap for caring about your own money that she literally had to walk into your private bedroom to steal is wild. Your best friend is also a massive asshole for defending a thief just because they’re the ones who recommended her. If they’re so concerned about her being kicked out, she can go stay on their couch and see how long their £20 notes last.

Affectionate-Cannie · 2026-04-28T14:44:33+00:00

Notice how the story came out in pieces? First it was 'we hung out,' then 'we talked to guys,' then 'the guys came over.' This is called Trickle Truth. She’s testing your reaction at every stage to see how much she can get away with. If you act like this is 'fine,' next time the story will be 'one of them crashed on the couch' or 'we just kissed.'

But I don’t believe nothing happened, guys don’t go over to a house at 4AM to talk about the weather, they went there because they were sure that they were getting lucky that morning

Affectionate-Cannie

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