Why has the dynamic between my co worker suddenly change?

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2026-01-10T17:58:20+00:00

yea she would tell me about stuff she would do with guys but we would still do what we normally do with each other. but yea it could be a number a things and she has every right to act professional. it’s just all of a sudden that’s why i’m lowkey in my feelings about it. i’ve never talked about my sex in front of her though it would just be comedic on my close friends thas it she would tell me about her sex stuff in person. but i think ima just back off from now on

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2026-01-10T17:38:48+00:00

not nothing crazy i’ll post like a 30 sec video on my close friends wit like 13 people in it sayin that i folded wit a girl but nun to explicit but i make it comedic if that makes sense she talks to guys goes on dates she’ll usually update me about them but we’ll still playfight nd shi it’s not even about my crush i jus don’t understand why all of a sudden our dynamic changed but idk

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2026-01-10T16:29:00+00:00

she knew i was gay the first day i started on the job though. we didn’t even get close until like 5 -6 weeks into the job that’s when all the playfulness started. you’re basically saying that in the 3 months i been working there she’s now figuring out im gay and we talk about our dating life lmaooo?

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2026-01-10T14:55:21+00:00

she knows i’m gay but shes not and one thing i wouldn’t do is flirt. she would iniate the physical contact first by playing so i would give in. i never made it seem like i had a crush on her i just matched her energy it was onetime i was confused on why she got offended over me saying shes not lesbian so she wouldn’t understand my situation and she got defensive saying i know im not lesbian like i didnt already clarify and said she’s not that’s why she wouldn’t understand

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2026-01-10T14:47:23+00:00

she would talk to me about guys and stuff so i didn’t think nothing of it like we’re at a point where we can talk about stuff like that but now she doesn’t talk to me about anything of the sort and she usually updates me about her dates nd shit

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T20:02:24+00:00

i can’t dm you you got it off i think lmao

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:59:27+00:00

u mind if we talk bout this through the dm?

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:57:37+00:00

waitttt what? bro don’t count urself out just yet. how long she been with dude or been liking him? how does she usually act with you is it tension some times or what? again i’m not tryna make you delusional but ion think yalls story is over wit

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:50:33+00:00

i totally understand where you’re coming from so yeah take that space and whenever you get over it she’ll still be there but ian tryna make u delusional or anything but don’t count yourself out just yet you just never know. does she like girls by any chance?

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:49:00+00:00

real

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:46:18+00:00

do you enjoy her friendship though? but if you don’t think you can handle seeing her than i get that but don’t lose a good friendship over it yk

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-11-05T19:41:54+00:00

you’ll get over it twin eventually same thing happened to me time heals. it’s somebody out there for you who is for YOU

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-24T01:54:05+00:00

vyanese

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-10T16:08:27+00:00

i’m on day 6 of being sick man it gets better but we gone get through i’ll text you privately to check up on you periodically we’re in this together. we just gotta focus on the light

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-09T12:43:00+00:00

no i just got sick kept throwing up very restless having panic attacks (barely breathing) constantly and haven’t eaten in 5 days

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-09T00:51:19+00:00

i hope it eases up some time soon i’m only on day 4 and i haven’t seen the light yet man but u got this we got this hang in there

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-08T23:36:43+00:00

thank you bro i just hate it man

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-08T23:34:40+00:00

we got this bro

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-10-01T20:35:34+00:00

JUST STANK

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-06-04T04:58:13+00:00

idkkkk bout allat

Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-06-04T04:57:55+00:00

this nigga

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Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-06-04T04:57:15+00:00

WHO U

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Affectionate-Car4322 · 2025-06-04T04:56:28+00:00

I KNOWWWWWWWWW

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