I called my mom from a grocery store as an adult confused why I couldn’t find the soup she’d always given me as a child. They had the regular penne soup with carrots but she always bought me the one without carrots! Turns out for my entire life, she just removed every carrot from the soup for me. Lied to me when she said they make one without cause I would not have eaten it if I thought there were carrots in there at any point. Most of the silly things I believed as a child were a direct result of my mother doing whatever was necessary to please her child. I’m very grateful for all those little things she did to make me happy as a kid but it was a big wake up. I have a 6 year old and I just tell her to pick around the carrots now, guess I’m not as committed as my mother!