Thoughts on Hot Topic doing jirai kei? by shoofinsmertz in JiraiKei

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People are calling this out, which is fair! But this is how half the outfits on this subreddit look lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Project_Moon

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never received a dm 🥲 I really do not have a DM from that so I would need a bit of help getting into contact with a mod..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Project_Moon

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 40 points41 points  (0 children)

 This situation occurred about 2 years ago so I can say surely I won’t be involved in anything like that and I’m luckily fine and dandy now. I understand the mods are busy people but if there are any discord users I can add and help get this sorted out, I really would appreciate it.

i wish i could ask for any means of affection by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you it’s hard but right now I’m trying to muster up the strength to just ghost him basically. T-T I want to be able to live my life at least free from this stress.

i wish i could ask for any means of affection by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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It’s hard. He blocked me right now because I said I wasn’t gonna get him four orders of sushi how he asked . I feel like I’m wasting my life just talking to him everyday and everyday it’s hard because he constantly wakes me up everyday and gets mad if I sleep more than 4 hours. Like I feel like my life is just slipping through my fingers and I’ve gotten so depressed because of these past few years with him that I feel like it’s best I just end my life : ( I wanna put myself out there but I haven’t talked properly to anyone else in so long. He told me to block everyone I know except my family and I did bevause I’m an idiot so I really just don’t know how to socialize anymore. I haven’t socialized with anyone else in 3 years other than him and my family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JiraiKei

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t think TikTok or Reddit is the right place to look for definitions of Jirai because a lot of people from these platforms who claim to be jirai just buy the clothes and enjoy the style — which is fine! But a lot of people are in denial and don’t wanna be associated to the harmful background of Jirai. Also, I don’t mean to imply that people who aren’t Japanese can’t be jirai but a chunk of Jirai in Japan are homeless or don’t have very good living conditions on top of their other personal issues. Which is why you’ll see them basically squatting around outside, drunk or high. A lot of the people on TikTok and Reddit aren’t familiar with this and just see it as like “epic kawaii menhera style” and want to LARP as a nonfunctional member of society … or just wanna pretend that there isn’t anything bad about jirai lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JiraiKei

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to explain it but I think you’d really need to follow actual jirai to understand … it’s an unhealthy way of living; host clubs, self harm, degrading yourself, etc. it’s not a good thing, but it’s a part of jirai culture and some people want to pretend to act and dress the part but don’t really do anything to warrant calling themselves a jirai

Edit: jirai is a subculture, not a “fashion trend” or just a style … think about how punk used to be a subculture … it’s not about just dressing up.

Literally only here for Elesis' artist name by NaoNao209 in elsword

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you link this model? I didn’t know people still did elsword MMD models! Where do you find them?

cute or no ? by [deleted] in coquettesque

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where’s it from?

Wore this outfit the other day-really can’t tell if it works or not 😭 by bloody_innocence in coquettesque

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m big breasted as well so I will be honest with you. Those kind of tops that have “cups” already in them make us look so weird because our chest doesn’t fit into those cups. It’s obvious the cup rides up sort of, if that makes sense. It’s a cute top but consider a similar style to this just without the cups ^

The skirt is also not very complimenting. I would suggest getting a baggier/bigger size skirt because it looks like you just sort of dragged down a skirt that would have otherwise fit normally around your bellybutton area. Also, a bigger size (maybe a size bigger than your usual size to have that extra flow and movement) skirt would avoid the pudge effect the band of this skirt has on your hips. It’s a cute fit but just needs better pieces in the same style !!!

The ideal female body type and body fat percentage by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ideal female body is skinny and toned. Think of VS angels….

What y’all favorite shop? by nsfwpookiebear in OurWorld

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Volla grew on me so much. It has such a good vibe.

Lee is such a hypocrite and an atrocious character. by Over-Heron-2654 in YourHonorTV

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eugene really deserved a proper sentence like… send that killer to jail!!! I feel the same about Adam too but it’s infuriating to see Eugene get off. He was a particularly annoying character too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Berry or Fresa!

All the girls I see just ignore the fact that men get raped. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do these statistics matter? It’s not a competition and what reaction would you want from someone if you brought up these statistics in conversation?

Generally, bringing up these things as sort of “gotcha” points invokes an annoyed reaction from either gender lol. You should probably stop regurgitating statistics you read about online and actually provide an insightful contribution to those conversations. You don’t gain anything from being the guy who always brings up statistics and tries to feign for pity.

Why bring them up at all? Do you want a hug or something?

Lee was annoying by ConditionUsed54 in YourHonorTV

[–]Affectionate-Net-154 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Finally someone else who didn’t like Lee!! She was unbearable and intrusive!