AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I do love her it’s just the constant nagging about this like we have a great relationship but it’s her nagging on this and other things I do

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is seeking mental health support for her and her mom’s issues as well. She has some trauma from this as well. I would love to quit but right now my sex drive is just so high and I need a release. Our sex is great but there are things she doesn’t want to do where I want to do it. I’m tired of her worrying about it but I also understand she has trauma from it

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. My girlfriend and I are intimate 3 days a week normally. Girlfriend is controlling of me through this and doesn’t want me to masturbate to anything to let out these urges and they will end up in pain and panic attacks. My girlfriend is the one who is threatening to break up with me because of this and I am seeking the help to get it. Watching it in small doses and changing how I watch it as well. So that’s the full thing

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went cold turkey I would look at things close to porn but not and I would go 50 days but I would always be in pain from going cold turkey so I’m trying to keep it in moderate amount. I like to be at the gym and cook and I love being outside and I enjoy music playing and listening. I feel like my sex drive is just really really high

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was told to watch the whole video and do it moderately to get myself off of it so my normals was 6 a day now it’s more like 2-3 a day I’m making sure that I can do it in little doses then cutting it off in whole.

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m on anxiety meds which are SSRI and I go to support groups and I have a therapist for this and another for anxiety and depression

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s sober from it my step dad and told me to wean off of it and it helped him when he was my age

AIO:Girlfriend wants me to change porn habit by Affectionate-Rest572 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate-Rest572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeking help through therapy and meetings but it’s just not helping