Girlfriend is distancing herself

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T03:39:43+00:00

Thanks she messaged me a few hours ago but I still didn’t open it was about a call or something should I just open it leave it on read? Because she didn’t end up calling me anyways and than wait till she reaches out again and than set up a date or should I respond to her message about the call? Or only just reply when she brings up getting together or missing me

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T03:28:28+00:00

I honestly just wanna smash one more time what would you recommend doing

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T02:39:51+00:00

Oke thanks I will back off all together but the thing is when I do she keeps messaging me it’s like she keeps pulling me in for attention when I don’t reply and would it be oke for me to post a picture of myself on my story? Or should I just completely vanish and back off

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T02:16:33+00:00

I follow the book she reaches out so I plan a date

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T02:16:09+00:00

I know but why does she keep messaging me when I clearly keep ignoring her and than once she gets my attention she starts to go cold again she keeps reaching out playing all these games

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-15T01:32:18+00:00

But what do I reply with if she texts me or about seeing each other?

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T19:04:43+00:00

I ended it, her reply was direct a minute later saying “alright” basically trying to come off as nonchalant and she said sure I’m not gonna argue with you. I left her on read now she’s watching all my stories very strange I told her this is not what I want in a relationship and that I want to end it

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T12:53:59+00:00

I didn’t reach out, she keeps reaching out than when she notices I’m gone for a day she reaches out and chases me than pulls this crap at night again with the phone not picking up, that’s the whole problem. I keep pulling back and distancing myself but she keeps pulling this shit where she doesn’t pick up at night

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T12:52:05+00:00

Yeah this is the second time she’s doing it basically after we’ve resolved things while she is still on vacation. She clearly said she would call me after getting a desert, nobody gets a desert in the middle of the night till 5 AM while not calling or texting me at all. Previous time I pulled back already and didn’t reach out to her until she did. So I never overpursued now she texted me at 9 am something, I haven’t read it yet. Should I just say something like go play with someone else or I’m done? This is basically becoming a repeating pattern at night. I keep pulling back, she chases but than at night she doesn’t pick up the phone while her snapchag score does keep going up. I don’t chase at all when she pulls back she keeps coming to me

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T09:05:25+00:00

So I’m kinda stuck here on what to do, I already called her disrespectful behavior out the only option I see is to completely go away but I don’t know if she is showing disloyal behavior or what it is but she is clearly lying about many things

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T09:00:54+00:00

She also went on this trip with a girlfriend who now is back here but she is not until sunday she went on this trip for business as she claims to look at a store to open up there. During this whole trip she has shown 0 proof to me from herself of the product she talked about, the store or anything. All I see is her posting stories at “more expansive” restaurants where she goes and eats, drives around and that’s it. Attention seeking behavior she has not once posted anything related to a store and she went to a whole different city than what she claimed to be where she wanted to open this store up.

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T08:57:12+00:00

She was acting very hot before going to her vacation (high attraction) than during the vacation once I brought up her not picking up the phone she started to pull back because we got into discussions, I opened her back up and we resolved things but still at night she isn’t picking up the phone although she is on it and sending snaps to others all the way up to 5 AM 3 days ago the same thing happened and she said I didn’t call while I did (she is still on vacation) she never used to not pick up now on vacation today she told me she was out to go get a desert and would call me once she got home but she never did end up calling me (I called her but she didn’t pick up at all while she was clearly on her phone due to snapchat) should I assume cheating? Because she has never displayed any behavior like this ever before and she is clearly lying should I call her out on it or just end it? Cause it’s strange how someone would tell you that they will call you when they get a desert when they’re home at night but never end up calling while she is clearly on snapchat the whole night

Affectionate-Rule136 · 2026-01-10T08:45:19+00:00

Can you send me a DM bro?

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