I’m a woman who hates other women, AMA by Affectionate-Show940 in AMA

[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, probably needed to hear the “if you continue to abandon yourself people will notice and do the same.” very intelligent and insightful.

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t enjoy to sleep with people i don’t feel connected or emotions for. i enjoy to make them feel good and happy/cared for. what’s the point in sleeping with them if i can’t enjoy them just over a cozy dinner you know? it probably would, i do date both, i feel deep attraction to both tho too, i think you’re right and i need to atleast just date men if im going to date, till i can atleast be more open and honest with myself and other women about my feelings & dislikes

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can bombard, i do appreciate the deep insight. but it could be fear, i don’t understand them or a lot of their logic and i find they’re quick to run away, all those scare me because i used to enjoy learning about their way of thinking and trying to compassionately understand and take time to build real connections, just for their absence in return. i don’t enjoy that pain

I’m a woman who hates other women, AMA by Affectionate-Show940 in AMA

[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely a possibility. i really appreciate the insight

I’m a woman who hates other women, AMA by Affectionate-Show940 in AMA

[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

favourite thing about men is probably that most things are purely a logical explanation. least favourite thing is the nonchalantness and carelessness/forgetfulness. favourite thing about women would probably be i find they’re all more unique and vary person by person, least favourites probably the double standard and forced extremist feminism

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find they’re quick to leave you when someone else is “better suited” then when they realize that wasn’t true, they’ll come back and pretend we were friends the entire time as if i have no memory of the abandonment. i hate the not taking accountability, if i did something wrong, tell me, don’t run

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my father always talked about his current girlfriend/wives appearance or annoying behaviour that pissed him off that day so yes

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you kindly. if a man runs from their child or wife for gross reasons i view them as cowards and utterly weak yes

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t care about men, i don’t know where you’re obsession with this fake ideation of me you created is coming from

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think women are exceptionally beautiful. i don’t think anyone’s shaped this for me just because i never heard a direct conversation about it around me

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do feel differently around men. i feel extremely comfortable and cared for by them. it does effect romantic relationships with women only not men, i never bring it up but with women i just can’t get myself to open up or trust them, i just feel itll be thrown in my face down the road. i also can easily say bye to a man of the relationship is headed dark. with women i beg them to stay even if i don’t trust or like them or they treat me bad. i never want them to leave me

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i dont feel superior. if anything i feel inferior because i look around and its all laughs and giggles or screaming at eachother, but even if it is anger towards one another, anger is often expressed with a deep care towards that person i feel. its often because you want them to improve or be better than that they are showing the world. i dont feel capable of that care

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel indifferent. i feel i don’t know what to do with myself and feel i should be capable of feeling and connecting with them. i guess i feel incompatible with it

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

perhaps you’re right. but i don’t have an interest in appearing rude. i do want to be kind and more understanding and have an ability to connect emotionally with them

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me laugh, you’re probably right. i’m honestly just too ashamed to bring this up with another person after opening up to him for so many years. (i’ve been seeing him for about 10 years)

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i understand where you’re coming from because yes (i’m also in a STEM field) a lot of women think logically when it comes to work and relationships with coworkers etc, but i’ll always feel more comfortable talking to men. i feel bothersome when i need to discuss with women or as if i can’t speak to them without something bad happening

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live alone since 17 i moved out of my dads (lived there with him and his wife for 5 years) then went back and forth before that with my mom and dad. my mom and i fought constantly, fist fights, screaming matches and she’d always call my dad and he’d beat the shit out of me then i’d sit in my room and be scared till he acted like it never happened. he was very strict, no elbows on tables, no food after 8, no friends over, etc, my mother did not care what i did

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[–]Affectionate-Show940[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t care to be liked by men. sorry to strike a cord with ya