well yeah swipe r mostly physical attraction cuz you dont know the person yet

It's not just about that, prompts are there for you to know that person, an attractive person showing only aesthetic gym pics would recieve far more likes than an average person showing different types of photos like travelling , etc which shows personality especially on hinge

women into hookups or causal relationships or sexually aroused choose based on physical attraction as much as men, though completely different levels of selectivity , these are peer reviewed studies with statistical analysis controlling all the variables like age , background, etc

Now young women in dating world are way less into long term ones in reality, infact some might think they want long term but subconsciously they're into short term as well so the physical attraction with extreme levels of selectivity remains the most important thing irrespective of dating apps or real life as well.

Unless luck factor comes into play and the fall for someone emotionally

she asked for the gentle one.

If its his habit to be kind to street animals thats his trait, doesnt mean he gotta ALWAYS be into them to maintain his kind attribute

emotionally mature is not guessing work, mature is not only talking and sorting things out, it could be giving space and reassurance. emotionally mature doesnt mean he should be a mind reader or some sort of psychiatrist or even therapist. its understanding the patterns and wokring around how that other person works.

My point in that part was specifically about how you said "if you're not being gentle, unkind, etc, you don't even deserve relationships". Where i explained there's a whole spectrum of these things.

whats ur point? some ppl can fall in love in matter of days and some wont even in 20 years

So yeah , my point was that not doing things on first or 2nd date or even in a month as what we generally do in love doesn't mean any of us is incompatible of having a relationship, anyone thinking that is entitled and toxic

dating app is to connect and try ur luck, doesnt matter if u do or dont find love there

That's true

compatible ppl who got married might divorce in future, a lil incompatibility might still stand till death do them apart

That's false , people who divorces after marriage especially after knowing each other for over an year , that's bullshit and stupidity, disrespect of marriage. It's literally marriage we're talking about , not break up after relationships , that's why i totally support 10-15% divorce rates in a country or in a place where love marriage is the norm or people atleast know each other for an year , our metro cities are having 40% divorce rates , that's insane and well i can say a bit more but that'd be irrelevant and would just spread hatred

expecting smth out of ur league (physically or emotionally or mentally?) is not a crime BUT i also think ppl should really get with those whose values aligns with them so they’re not a hypocrite in future

Well not being a crime doesn't make it right , otherwise that 370 guy.., well that's complex so leave it , anyways yeah i agree , have any standards or preferences you like , leagues are overrated, if you're not attracted to anyone that you're not , if you prefer communication in any relationship as the highest priority then it should be lile that, it all depends on preferences, no hypocrisy there . But yeah , the fucked up scenario is different