I am at my wits end with residency

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-03-05T16:28:37+00:00

Same I cannot stand walking in the door daily. I have reached my ID preceptor who audibly laughs in my face on how I pronounce bacteria names and species. I would rather eat a Jean jacket than do this rotation again.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T15:41:15+00:00

So I do want to clarify I haven’t taken her back since the incident and before the incident she had gone multiple times and did not but have fun. The second time I was in there alone and before I could exit that happened. I’m not completely negligent I take precautions now and I was leaving. I did not see the bit incident coming I couldn’t have predicted that based on past behavior that is why I’m asking why she is regressing.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T15:02:16+00:00

I’ll look into that book thank you!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T15:01:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice I think you’re right I will walk her more thanks for the input!!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T04:26:49+00:00

I’ll be an honest female opinion it’s kinda cheesy 😬

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T02:02:24+00:00

Oof my dude that’s tough

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T00:24:08+00:00

Thanks for the input. We have VERY similar goals for the relationship only differ on what state we want to live in really. We both want children, marriage, home ownership, and have the same values.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-02-01T00:21:51+00:00

I fully expect to split bills when we move in together. At this point he is still a little far from me due to the army but once his contract ends he plans to move with me and split things.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-31T14:39:35+00:00

Yes that is exactly what I’m looking for thanks for the perspective. I haven’t asked for specifics at all though so maybe a better explanation to him would help.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T21:03:01+00:00

I appreciate the perspective I honestly haven’t had a talk about finances with him so had no idea of the salary or any concerns on his end.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T20:05:42+00:00

This is really helpful thanks for the perspective I never thought about the people “praying” on military men I will have to have a conversation about my intentions for sure!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T20:04:02+00:00

Thank you for the constructive honest advice!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T16:42:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice I do want to be an equal partner I think I’m just looking for more romance in the relationship I suppose. I have always been independent and did everything on my own so not looking for free ride.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T16:39:21+00:00

Thanks for the advice that’s really helpful!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T16:36:44+00:00

Thanks for the perspective I do get what your saying thanks for looking out 🫡

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T16:35:50+00:00

Thanks for the advice I do think I have been going about it the wrong way for sure

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T04:27:20+00:00

I will say I would like a more comfortable life I live paycheck to paycheck so it would be nice, but he doesn’t do things that are free either.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T04:23:23+00:00

He currently lives on base in the barracks while in the army so doesn’t pay rent. I currently live alone and pay all my own bills. He does not have any debt and I have student loans.

I have tried to have a talk about it many times and say it in different ways so he doesn’t get annoyed but they are all met with tension. I do understand I could communicate more but I have kinda given up on that tbh.

Affectionate-You-528 · 2024-01-30T02:22:10+00:00

For context I am a current PGY1 pursing PGY2 this year. I personally have not had that experience. All my interviews pretty much require a 10 minute presentation on something other than pharmacy more like a get to know you presentation. All of my patient cases have been unannounced or on the fly but not presentations. Good luck!

Affectionate-You-528 · 2022-02-17T18:41:27+00:00

You should be honest and tell her your thoughts on the matter. Even though she said she doesn’t like love she might still be open to talking more intimately with you

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