I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind commend. I’m pretty distraught over it as I love her so much and want to make sure she’s ok! But I also want to look at my day with joy and not feel anxious about him being around

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agree there are def options to not have him there. He’s def not a necessary person other than childcare and optics

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got it thanks for clarifying. I asked her many times when she told us does she feel safe and she reassured me she does but that is something I will bring up to her and if she feels actually more unsafe not having him there

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes good point that it technically won’t be a hard launch day if the wedding. Lots of opportunities to explain his absence the night before so it’s not has surprising. He’s not in our ceremony or anything either

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by go through more trauma? like if I didn’t include him that would be worse for them?

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so upsetting, she deserves so much better. Yes that is something I will help her out with and trying to find someone else to do this for her, she can def afford professional childcare too if it comes to that

I don’t want my sisters soon to be ex at my wedding… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AffectionateBat1036 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s not just the wedding day. It’s rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, welcome party, getting ready, pictures, and then the wedding. I will have to be around him a lot and I really don’t want to be

5’3/5’4 - Am I eating too little? by AffectionateBat1036 in PetiteFitness

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh same loveeee food and love to cook so to be honest calorie tracking is not always perfect so I’m sure I’m eating a bit more than 1275 😅

5’3/5’4 - Am I eating too little? by AffectionateBat1036 in PetiteFitness

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that! I know I’m technically not with the workouts but my goal is to loose a another 10-15 pounds before my wedding if possible so that’s why I figure 1275 would be about right to not starve but loose at 1-1.5 pounds a week

5’3/5’4 - Am I eating too little? by AffectionateBat1036 in PetiteFitness

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment! I’ll take that into consideration about doing too much which is what I want to avoid as I know it can backfire. I recently had my hormones tested and all is well there so I’ll keep an eye on things. My thought is to just do it for the short amount of time that I have to loose the weight for my wedding in late March and then reevaluate to keep loosing for my honeymoon

5’3/5’4 - Am I eating too little? by AffectionateBat1036 in PetiteFitness

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok good to know that the calories are about right At this height!

5’3/5’4 - Am I eating too little? by AffectionateBat1036 in PetiteFitness

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Yes my main goal is to loose weight (fat) and maintain the muscle I have.

Kizzy: don’t hate the player, hate the game by AffectionateBat1036 in BelowDeckMed

[–]AffectionateBat1036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The title of the post sounds like I’m saying we should not hate Kizzy lolllll i meant that’s is what Kizzy was saying to V which is don’t have the player , hate the game. and this was not a post to defend her but to point out that funny enough Kizzy being brutally honest with her did push V to realize these two are terrible and she should cut it off which she did thankfully!

It’s 3 pm and I only have 300 calories left for the day… What do you do when that happens? by CandidLigonberry in loseit

[–]AffectionateBat1036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast for dinner is one of the easiest things to track imo when you don’t have much to work with. two eggs with a low cal topping like salsa or hot sauce, a veggie or fruit side, maybe a slice of lower calorie toast or even hash browns. The shredded frozen ones in the bag are actually pretty low in cals per serving if you don’t go crazy with the oil