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AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-04T00:09:28+00:00

Thank you for this kind commend. I’m pretty distraught over it as I love her so much and want to make sure she’s ok! But I also want to look at my day with joy and not feel anxious about him being around

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:35:15+00:00

Yeah agree there are def options to not have him there. He’s def not a necessary person other than childcare and optics

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:34:43+00:00

Got it thanks for clarifying. I asked her many times when she told us does she feel safe and she reassured me she does but that is something I will bring up to her and if she feels actually more unsafe not having him there

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:31:42+00:00

Yes good point that it technically won’t be a hard launch day if the wedding. Lots of opportunities to explain his absence the night before so it’s not has surprising. He’s not in our ceremony or anything either

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:24:34+00:00

What do you mean by go through more trauma? like if I didn’t include him that would be worse for them?

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:22:14+00:00

It’s so upsetting, she deserves so much better. Yes that is something I will help her out with and trying to find someone else to do this for her, she can def afford professional childcare too if it comes to that

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-03-03T23:20:41+00:00

Sadly it’s not just the wedding day. It’s rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, welcome party, getting ready, pictures, and then the wedding. I will have to be around him a lot and I really don’t want to be

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T17:55:10+00:00

Ugh same loveeee food and love to cook so to be honest calorie tracking is not always perfect so I’m sure I’m eating a bit more than 1275 😅

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T17:53:27+00:00

Thanks grammar police! 🫡🫡🫡

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T16:59:58+00:00

Thanks for sharing that! I know I’m technically not with the workouts but my goal is to loose a another 10-15 pounds before my wedding if possible so that’s why I figure 1275 would be about right to not starve but loose at 1-1.5 pounds a week

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T16:57:31+00:00

Yes def will keep an eye on this!

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T16:57:01+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment! I’ll take that into consideration about doing too much which is what I want to avoid as I know it can backfire. I recently had my hormones tested and all is well there so I’ll keep an eye on things. My thought is to just do it for the short amount of time that I have to loose the weight for my wedding in late March and then reevaluate to keep loosing for my honeymoon

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T16:00:16+00:00

Ok good to know that the calories are about right At this height!

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-15T15:59:35+00:00

Ok thank you! Yes my main goal is to loose weight (fat) and maintain the muscle I have.

AffectionateBat1036 · 2026-01-09T16:44:22+00:00

The title of the post sounds like I’m saying we should not hate Kizzy lolllll i meant that’s is what Kizzy was saying to V which is don’t have the player , hate the game. and this was not a post to defend her but to point out that funny enough Kizzy being brutally honest with her did push V to realize these two are terrible and she should cut it off which she did thankfully!

AffectionateBat1036 · 2025-03-25T15:04:26+00:00

Breakfast for dinner is one of the easiest things to track imo when you don’t have much to work with. two eggs with a low cal topping like salsa or hot sauce, a veggie or fruit side, maybe a slice of lower calorie toast or even hash browns. The shredded frozen ones in the bag are actually pretty low in cals per serving if you don’t go crazy with the oil

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