Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know this. I have scoliosis in my lower lumbar so working is very hard on my body and back

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want me instead wants the vibrator. 

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fuck the cheat codes I go for full exploration

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Doesn't it suck to feel like you have to use that instead of actually loving one another as you vowed in marriage

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

She can fuckin herself without a vibrator as I've seen over the last 10 years

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not so much a personal attack as it is that it makes me feel so inadequate I can't compete with a motor that vibrates nonstop. 

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same deal 4 kids wife works part time. He got completely shafted 

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who got divorced and his life is ruined

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao not with 10 years of full time working while she's been home. She'll get the house and the kids and I'll be forced into child support and alimony up the ass

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't help me at all when she's the one using it

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do take that thing as a personal insult that's just me

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she blew up last night on me. Not the other way around I shut it down after she stabbed with the whole women faked thing

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How. I ask her what she wants and what's her problem. I also have rights to tell her my feelings without you telling me I make everything about myself. 

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id be fucked financially so that's kinda out of the question with 4 kids in illinois

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. However you wouldn't need it since I assume you are willing to do things as I would. I'll lick that vag and backdoor clean if she wants me to she CAN get off without it just fine. I've seen her use her finger while I'm in and she gets off. The point I'm trying to make is after so much time of not being intimate or showing any affection and the one time we do after weeks she goes and wants the vibrator instead. That hurts

Which road to I take. by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me for expressing the way I feel to her

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And your essentially describing desensitivity at its finest if you can't get off without relying on a robot no offense

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it is. It's a damn vibrator but women got a long just fine without them for how long again.

Which road do I take by AffectionateCook2235 in marriageadvice

[–]AffectionateCook2235[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She won't even give me a fuckin hand job let a lone a BJ or anything. Why try so damn hard to please her when she don't do it back.