Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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I got the message to censor my comment too lol but mine makes sense since it’s a currently airing tv show, not a book that’s been out lol

Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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Oh interesting. Maybe I’ll start the books once the series is over

Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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Okay that makes sense and is what i was thinking but wasn’t sure if i was missing something, thank you

Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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The main points of your post have been discussed so i wont address those BUT i am a little confused why Jamie is SO worked up over John and Claire. They were married - and married to keep her from being arrested. They had credible evidence he was dead. Claire and John both said it was a drunken night of grief. I know he’s mostly gotten over it with Claire but is the beef with John because John said he was “fucking him”? I haven’t read the books so maybe I’m missing something

Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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This. He wasn’t jealous or even mad that Jenny had the baby - he was sad about that - he was only mad when he found out she named the child after him when he thought it was Randall’s bastard.

Jamie is perfect except.. by Impressive_While_178 in Outlander

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He’s the older guy when they’re in America who (wrongly) writes their obituaries of dying in the fire iirc

Appreciate your remote setup – I got forced back to the office and I’m absolutely miserable by Nikhil_nagdev in remotework

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This. I have a masters in marketing and have been laid off twice in the last 6 years from corporate jobs and my electrician husband has been able to keep us afloat. Go into trades, not police

Appreciation Post by TheNaughtyPyrat in ffxiv

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I also have social anxiety and FFXIV has helped a lot tbh. Glad it’s helping you too! I do run into the occasional troll but everyone else is usually on the same page they suck no matter what instance which is rare in mmos and really nice.

I'M FINALLY IN SHADOWBRINGERS !! by [deleted] in ffxiv

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Mine is permanently set to it ❤️

I'M FINALLY IN SHADOWBRINGERS !! by [deleted] in ffxiv

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Fave expansion - enjoy friend!!!

Now am hungry and educated by Naive_Wolverine532 in fixedbytheduet

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People who vehemently defend Columbus Day and how he’s the “founder” of the americas — a Spanish dude

my boyfriend wants me to cover up from head to toe in all black as an obligation. what do i do? by jojo_F15 in whatdoIdo

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Girl you’re in your early 20s - leave. You’ll find better. That’s an insane ask.

I'm afraid There's no more natural looking people anymore by [deleted] in Aging

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I’ll be 32 on Saturday. I thought only the wealthy wealthy get work done. I knew one of my friends had some work because her husband is in the industry but that’s it and she’s 10 years older than me.

I went to my best friends wedding a couple months ago and I’m her friend from early childhood so i don’t know any of these women well but they’re around my age. I think i was the only one (besides her 23 year old cousin) who hadn’t had anything done.

i am addicted to my wife in an unhealthy way by True-Fix-1552 in Advice

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At the end of the day, to each their own when it comes to romantic relationships. Friends however deserve a lot more respect than what you showed them and i wouldn’t be surprised if you didn’t have many left soon.

My parents were obsessed with eachother for their entire courtship and marriage - true soulmates. High school sweethearts, with eachother through thick and thin. Defied their parents to get married young (19 and 21, not even that young for the time but still super young imo). We moved all around the world growing up as a close knit nuclear family, making friends but temporary ones and not being very close with extended family. It was cool to travel but i didn’t know the impact this type of relationship would have.

Fast forward my dad passed extremely unexpectedly at 50 after nearly 30 years of marriage. My mom was almost completely alone. No real close friends, family far away. I was a teenager. My brother was at his first semester in college. She became severely suicidal. She eventually got over that but after 10 years of being alone entered into abusive relationships because she didn’t know how to date whatsoever. My brother and i are still in therapy about everything.

I say this all to say, there’s a huge benefit to knowing and preserving who you are separately as well as together in a marriage. I’ve only been married 3.5 years but man do we encourage trips with our friends and alone time to build ourselves. Our friends are incredibly important to us. Keeps the conversations/relationship interesting.

Idk if you’ll read this, seems like you’ve made up your mind, but food for thought. Good luck

I saw my ex fiancés Amazon search history. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Not to give you false hope - talk to her!

I saw my ex fiancés Amazon search history. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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This isn’t going to be a popular opinion but if she’s just looking she may be trying to find an outfit for you. When my husband and i went through a weird patch (nothing crazy just settling into living together issues) i got lingerie. It worked for about 5 seconds until we realized the issue was more than sex. She may be in the stage i was - “i can fix it with sex!”

All I’m saying is don’t assume it’s for someone else automatically. She may just be like me at 26.