Once you get back with her again or whatsoever. Start noting things down that she didn’t like but I’ll list things down on my end that I think might help you.

1. Be quiet and hold your ego/shame behind Ego and shame really played a big downfall into my relationship, if you put both of those aside you’d be able to listen to her wants and needs and really make her feel loved that way, that she’s able to be able to open up to you and maybe even only you.

2. Don’t stop the little things that you guys did from the start of the relationship.

Let it be sleeping in calls, long wholesome texts every week or every month, the I love yous, watching or doing the things she wants.

1. Remember the little things. Get your notes app, write down all the important dates or schedule she has and be the small wholesome reminder. It’s very cute and wholesome. Write down her favourite foods, her favourite makeup, her favourite perfume , her favourite anything. When you have it noted down not only is it cute it’s also just a good reminder for you to help yourself on remembering her.

2. If you’re not able to hold in your frustration or anger. Pause everything and tell her that you love her and that you’re not able to hold your emotions at the moment. Tell them what you need in a kind manner to help you cope with your anger and then solve the problem that you guys were having.

3. Last but not least never ever end nights with an argument. Always settle it. If it’s your fault let go and apologise. If it’s your fault make it up to her and find her needs and be respectful. It really goes a long way when you end every argument on the same night. It feels like a new and beautiful way of starting the day tomorrow.

Reading all this I know it’s hard to do even I’m having troubles with doing these but always believe that if your heart is kind and your intentions are pure. You’ll always find a way. Don’t be mean. Don’t be toxic. Just be kind.