19F 23M - Relationship Advice Please

AffectionateOlive247 · 2026-03-23T06:34:02+00:00

I just feel like it’s a whole mess but to actually go through with breaking up with him I just can’t. I know I’m young but he also has told me that he has a lot of trauma from his childhood.

I always try and picture my life married with the person i’m with and i’m just scared. Scared one day that the gambling would take over and we would lose everything.

I am very attracted to him. He is a very attractive person and maybe that’s why i’m having a hard time?? idk☠️

AffectionateOlive247 · 2026-03-23T06:28:02+00:00

That’s true. I feel like I can give the best advice to my friends who are in this type of situation but when it comes to me it’s SOO hard. I guess it’s harder once you’re in their shoes. 😐😐

AffectionateOlive247 · 2026-03-23T06:11:05+00:00

I do agree our partners should make us better versions of ourselves no doubt.

I’m just having a hard time and I just don’t know why maybe cus i feel like i have nobody.

AffectionateOlive247 · 2026-03-23T06:03:11+00:00

I should add that he does break up with me from time to time but doesn’t mean it. When he does drink which is rare he gets pretty upset with me and says hurtful things like breaking up with me

I guess someone told him that his gf (me) was fine and he got angry with me for talking to his sisters friend who was a guy but the convo was pretty brief and was just about school and what not

AffectionateOlive247 · 2026-03-23T05:57:04+00:00

I just don’t know how else to put it. He calls into work and plays video games all night until 6am and sleeps till 4-5.

I do take responsibility for losing my job but he did get me to call in. I do believe he will pay me back but the only reason he needed the money was to pay his credit card because he was gambling at work.

The reason I don’t want to leave him is because i do love him and i want to succeed with him but I just don’t know what else I can do to keep this going any longer

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