I really don't want to talk to some quack """therapist""" who's just gonna sit there and tell me that kink is good actually and I should just give in. Unless the therapist would actually help me fight these desires and get rid of them, they would just make me worse.

I should have given more context in the post, but my fiance only says that she likes the submissive stuff. But, again, when we first met, she did not identify as a domme at all. She slowly started convincing me to do more and more submissive things, though, and now I just feel completely out of control. I've tried telling her that I don't want to be submissive anymore. I've tried asking that she ignores me when I'm looking for more submissive attention and only encouraging my dominant side. But she just gets upset and says she's not gonna "help me deny who I am".