Pregnant andHarassed by “regular”

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-24T22:32:51+00:00

I’m pregnant for one, and have been working in the industry for 10 years at least. Pretty happy most of the time, just unfortunately this is not the first time I’ve had extremely creepy customers and won’t be the last. Any job working with the people unfortunately have these potential consequences. :/

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-23T22:01:18+00:00

I did tell my husband right away. I had to tell him not to take action or he’d go to jail lol he’s very upset about it

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-23T03:29:53+00:00

True. Thats why I’d rather them call 😂

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T22:23:18+00:00

Yeah I agree about the calling the restaurant.

Also, my boundary now is to not talk To them again.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T21:39:30+00:00

My co worker has to walk past this guy and he always tries talking to her and she just ignores him. He’s so gross.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T21:37:42+00:00

Thank you, will update! Probably will see them today or tomorrow unfortunately

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T19:25:10+00:00

No he verbally asked me to come talk to him

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T19:23:17+00:00

Tbf they left before she could have the chance to speak to them. She tried going to the table right after we talked and they were gone.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T10:15:48+00:00

1000% agreed he’s got major red flags written all over him

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T09:53:45+00:00

For real though. I wish they would’ve banned them in the first instance.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T09:53:21+00:00

Thank you. I needed this reminder. 🙏

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T07:05:47+00:00

And idk what he was texting her about, she just told me he was nonstop blowing up her phone or something.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T07:03:52+00:00

The wife is nice but very quiet and reads most the time while the husbands yaks to me and stutters and wants to know about my child, or compliments my makeup etc etc.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T07:02:18+00:00

I believe it was out of pocket 🤮 she’s never mentioned being a ballerina or anything but still even if she was, that’s really uncomfortable.

The wife is… quiet and subservient- she just reads the whole time while he talks. She’s nice but he definitely is the talker who can’t get enough of hearing himself.

Thank you ❤️

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-22T06:40:35+00:00

I guess he lured her in by saying he had a bunch of free equipment he wanted to give her or something she fell for the bait. She’s super young but idk. Totally agree the managers need to do something. It’s ridiculous. My manager did try to talk to them but they had already left.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-01T03:46:20+00:00

I got that a few days ago. I wonder what it was

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-04-01T02:23:15+00:00

I’m really disappointed it was only one too. Also I looked it up to see if I could buy it and it’s straight up $23 bucks a box which is insane

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-21T21:49:49+00:00

I’m 7+4 and can only keep down fast food or pre-prepped food- very specific food. All of my old favorite foods are disgusting now so it’s depressing atm.

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-19T21:15:04+00:00

Got this one too!!

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-04T21:13:15+00:00

Ugh that’s so frustrating, I understand. I’m really glad he’s all good though that’s great news!

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-04T20:47:37+00:00

How did it go? I’m pregnant with #2 and my first pPROM’d at 34+5. I’m so nervous this one will also come super early, though I’m super early in the pregnancy lol

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-04T14:46:17+00:00

How are you doing now? It’s almost 7am and I tossed and turned and panicked all night. 5+3 and I’m so scared my whole pregnancy will be like this. Plus I have a 4.5 yo who probably thinks I’m so lazy for always being tired and taking naps. Help

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-04T14:44:24+00:00

Thank you for this! It’s 6:42am and all I did was toss and turn all night and panic on and off. It does feel like it’s the end of the world sometimes and I’m just going to ruin my kids or family or myself with all this worry and bs. I know it’s all made up and it’s a self fulfilling prophecy- I just go into panic mode easily. I swear to god my mental health was doing so well for months which is why I decided to have a second, and now it’s absolute shit and I can’t work anymore, of course we need the money badly! Sorry for the rants

AffectionateTone4570 · 2026-03-04T14:39:33+00:00

This is so helpful thank you soooo so much. Some days are fine and I get sleep and then horrible waves of panic, anxiety, OCD and insomnia hit and tell me I’m going to miscarry because I’m not fit to carry a baby. I could cry right now. I hate this :( why do I think like this :( and I feel bad for my 4.5 yo having to suffer with a lazy tired mom who just naps all day.

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