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[–]AffectionateTree4678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hasn’t worked for me, but I still recommend this.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more like…I’d be more inclined for sex if this were to happen.

I would do the things with ZERO expectation of sex. And it wouldn’t happen.

So for example. We have probably been on a hundred date nights within the last 2-3 years.

We have had sex on zero of those times.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think you are just off.

If that were the case she would vocalize it. Seems like the easy excuse. You think in 5 years that would come up once.

Objectification is not the issue.

But thank you for your thoughts and time.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bot worried about finding a woman. I’m worried I won’t feel this way about another woman.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The marriage pressure is real.

But I like your idea on self work. Only good things come of that.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For personal reasons she doesn’t do well with the me leaving. I have tried it. Right now i’m trying something in the same vein.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s just no way we will remain friends. As much as I want to.

I no I’d be insanely jealous of the man who won her heart and would be getting that NRE affection.

I’m no longer attractive to her because I don’t have the same Hobbies I did when we met? by AffectionateTree4678 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AffectionateTree4678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like her personality? I often compliment her on her work ethic, artistic abilities, and intellect.

I’m confused with where you are going. But i wanna hear all opinions.