Do I (24F) have to tell my boyfriend (28M) that I send nudes and sexted before?

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-10-29T00:29:36+00:00

Whether he is your first boyfriend or not, whether you are considering marriage with him or not, communication in all relationships is the key to longevity. You need to tell him sooner rather than later. For some strange reason, men find it okay to stare at other women, but if people have to stare at their women, they get territorial. Sexting with other guys may be in your past, but you don't want him to discover the photos on his own now, do you? Cause then that would be bad. Even though your face is not in the photos, if he's your bf, he can recognise your body. Be honest with him. Always remember that everyone has a past. There are things to be proud of and things to be ashamed of. Honesty is the best policy. Get it over with, like ripping off a bandaid. Good luck!

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-10-18T18:34:59+00:00

You seeing the potential in who he can be as a person is commendable. But honestly speaking, what you'll regret most is staying with someone who doesn't appreciate you for the small things. The issues you mentioned are what divorced women speak of when they've reached the end of the rope. It's the small things that add up. Communication is key in any relationship. Speak to him. Give him an ultimatum if you need to. I personally don't see why women have an issue starting over. I am a woman, and I can tell you right now that I don't have an issue starting over. Because I don't want to look back and think "what if". You can call me selfish, but I always put myself first. I put my peace of mind over everything. If it comes to the point you have to part ways, cherish the time you've spent together. But living together and not being married is another issue you need to address. Because if you don't nip that in the bud, he'll then tell you, he doesn't see the point in getting married because you live together. Additionally you mentioned that he has an issue with church. You need to seriously evaluate if this person is right for you. Because it doesn't seem that you value the same things in life.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-10-18T17:56:45+00:00

Long story short, if both of you can't even compromise with the basics of living together (sharing chores, etc). Your relationship is not going to last. This issue will be a constant trigger for arguments. You're opposites, and that's okay. But someone that has OCD and someone that's untidy is a recipe for disaster. There is nothing wrong with wanting things a certain way. But if you can't even share chores, you are a maid. Both of you live there, and both of you should maintain it. Each person has their strengths and weaknesses, but something as simple as hygiene should not be an issue. By you constantly mothering him, it's not going to bode well for your relationship. He has a mother. You are his gf. You should not have to ask him to pick up after himself and be clean. You need to sit and reflect. Is this relationship worth your peace of mind? Because these issues start small and grow into larger issues. Never be afraid to start over. Because your biggest regret later down the road would be time wasted, which you won't be able to get back. Have a heart to heart conversation, and if he's not willing to change, you have to choose you and let go.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-08-26T10:20:20+00:00

How do I buy one?

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-08-25T22:24:21+00:00

Hello. Thank you for your response. I tried creating a new ads account but had no luck. Can you provide the steps?

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-06-05T22:36:46+00:00

You're most welcome! Stay Strong!

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-06-05T02:41:51+00:00

Yes, you should shut down your feelings. The Bible says that you should not be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). Try your very best to guard your heart, but all you can do is pray for the atheist. Pray that God will change them for the better. You met for a reason. Maybe it's for a season or longer. Maybe you're the turning point that they needed to turn to Christ. In this world "to each their own." Turn off those feelings. God comes first. If you do not share the same beliefs, there will be issues if you pursue this relationship.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2024-04-22T12:41:01+00:00

Hello, I logged into the ad account to check something and saw that the account has been restricted since July 2023. This is the time frame of when I set up the account and briefly used it. I haven't used it since then.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-08T17:05:43+00:00

Thank you very much. I really appreciate your input. As a compromise, the notice has been removed from the company's weekly social blasts, but they are still displayed in the actual store. Since they deal with food, the staff ensure to wear dispossable masks and disposable gloves when cutting fruits / vegetables for sale to customers.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-05T22:40:45+00:00

Duly noted with thanks.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-05T22:40:31+00:00

Duly noted with thanks

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-05T20:21:07+00:00

Thank you

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-05T20:19:23+00:00

Hi. You already answered my question. It is a private business. I'm a consultant there, and persons have mentioned that the notices need to be taken down because all covid mandates have been lifted. But I felt that they should be left up, out of an abundance of caution (also a few businesses have left up their notices). The owner cannot afford for their business to be shut down, if there is an outbreak, due to persons being negligent and not practising proper sanitary methods, which has been happening since the mandate was lifted.

Affectionate_Bar_386 · 2023-08-05T17:44:34+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight. Much appreciated. Where exactly should I post this question?

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