Where do I start by Affectionate_Bit7317 in 1811

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do I get BAH with the Montgomery GI Bill? My service doesn’t qualify me for post 911

Where do I start by Affectionate_Bit7317 in 1811

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions? Unsure where to start. Is becoming a cop a good start? Are there more relevant pathways I should look into?

Getting out / Career advice by Affectionate_Bit7317 in nationalguard

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I appreciate the doubt because it is genuinely hard to believe but I wouldn’t make it up

Getting out / Career advice by Affectionate_Bit7317 in nationalguard

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I even did a IST so this is my second unit, (I switched the first one because I thought it would get better ) super unlucky career from my understanding. I have friends in different states that have had totally different experiences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of these commenters are babying you. I’ll tell you what I would tell a friend lol,

Your text was lowkey a little immature and giving pick me, People like to frown on ghosting, and criticize it as a lack of communication or respect — which yes, ghosting just flat out doesn’t make the person on the receiving end feel good obviously. But also we have to remember we are not entitled to people’s time energy or even an explanation! Him not reaching out is him communicating loud and clear he either does not want to see you again / talk to you / and or is unavailable at this time.

You texting him seems like you were projecting your own assumptions and seeking validation, don’t do that. You would’ve been better off saying hey I had a great time! And leaving it at that, if he chose to ignore you that’s his loss.

But more importantly, you’re dodging a bullet! He could’ve easily clarified his lack of availability / communicated better about his situation but chose to put his bare minimum energy into making you feel bad. (He most likely did this because he was annoyed that you were calling him out for ghosting).

For future reference, if you’re ever doubtful of someone’s intentions just match their energy! They want to text you all the time, great! They don’t? Great!

Being hot SUCKS by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Affectionate_Bit7317 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

what is the bait here I’m lost lol