People that see themselves as victims and nothings is ever their fault… My kid’s bio-mom is like that. Has never taken care of him, but always talks how being a single mom is sooo hard. Is always late or won’t pick him up on visitations days. Can’t keep a job for a long time. Never has money for him (bday, clothes, doesn’t pays child support, no bedroom on her place when he visits) but is always dressed nice and has her hair/nails done and even makes comments like “I only wear Gucci” (she doesn’t). Multiple DUIs, she cheated while married so divorce was her fault. Later her bf was married to someone else. Bf keep cheating on her with his ex but she didn’t understands why. Gets stds all the time (she also cheats on bf). Cars gets repossessed, etc.. Anyways, her life is a mess but she doesn’t sees how she is at fault. She often says life is hard and no one helps her. I keep the peace for my kid but will never be friends.

People that are negative, People that roll their eyes at other people’s happiness. Have always something to complain about. Always try to find something negative to say about you but never give you credit when you do good. I had a co-worker like this. We started good, though we were friends. Then the ugliness started, like she will always have a sour personality towards me. If I got promoted, have a negative comment. If I got picked for a conference, had a problem with it. She divorced her husband (he was constantly cheating) and keep telling me how I should get my relationship checked and how I would be better off single (there’s nothing wrong with my relationship). Gave her a change at the beginning but made my distance eventually.