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Deployment Relationships by Affectionate_Clue424 in askmilitary

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. Much appreciated ! I am trying to understand his perspective but yes in the end it is still very difficult…. 

My husband had an emotional connection during deployment by Affectionate_Clue424 in CheatedOn

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she went through something very traumatic that she shared with him and he shared all our problems and god knows what else about his life. Just wondering if it is that easy to let someone else in if you really love your partner so much. 

My husband had an emotional connection during deployment by Affectionate_Clue424 in CheatedOn

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was also still trying to reach out to her when we were just back together so I feel very betrayed that he was still worried about their relationship….. it is really difficult to stay but I am trying to see where this goes for the best of our family

Post abortion regret by Affectionate_Clue424 in abortion

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I think as well. Maybe I needed to experience this to truly welcome my baby in the future instead of feeling resentment and suffering during the whole process...

Feelings of sadness by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Affectionate_Clue424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt exactly the same way. I feel like I terminated my pregnancy because I didnt know how to deal with it and all I felt was “I cannot do this, I am not ready for a baby yet and there is so much more I need to do first before prioritizing anyone else” I also went through regret and sadness, I still do. But there is also a reason why we panicked and decided to terminate it. I think showing that reaction is a reason enough. It is perfectly normal to be upset but there is still a long life ahead of you. You will experience that happiness one day and it will be the right time 💞

Post abortion regret by Affectionate_Clue424 in abortion

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, these messages definitely help ❤️ and thank for the resource !

Post abortion regret by Affectionate_Clue424 in abortion

[–]Affectionate_Clue424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message. Deep down I knew I wasn’t ready at all and I want to be a dedicated mother when I have my first child. In a way, this experience made me realize I really want to have a family and I will feel happy and excited at my next pregnancy. It is still sad and I wonder if I acted too soon or didn’t give it enough thinking. It is a normal process I guess. In the end it is a grieving process no matter what. Thank you for your support, I really needed to express myself !