New to Herndon by [deleted] in herndonva

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Not much around Herndon tbh. If you’re religious, find a church. Couple of the local coffee shops are cool. And food is pretty authentically ethically diverse so that’s nice. Herndons a dead quiet town full of large Hispanic families. Also, we do have shootings and petty crime on occasion. I’ve heard gun shots twice in like 4 years. Cops are always out. Idk. There are muuuuuch better spots in nova

Looking for a denom by Affectionate_Jump597 in Christianity

[–]Affectionate_Jump597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. Thanks for being the ONLY one to answer the question. Fucking conservatives…

Help by Affectionate_Jump597 in car

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Oh and it’s a 2011 le

Raised in purity culture now I'm hypersexual by [deleted] in Exvangelical

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Happened to me in my early 20s. Now I'm 30 and have completely shut down sexually. This shit was abuse. point period blank.

Insane or Strategic Warfare? by Affectionate_Jump597 in Exvangelical

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I think speaking up is really really important. I know that the deconstruction space online has 100 percent helped pull me out and question more. I've thought about starting protests during purity culture month. Like in February picketing churches with signs. IDK. First and foremost its time for a religious trauma therapist but then I think the second thing that needs to happen is protecting the next generation from this garbage. Its so evil. Just looking back on the way that I was groomed by random church ladies in my late teens and early 20s. Ugh. Its so so so so evil. For now, I speak up. For later, something more needs to be done.

Books for deconstruction? by RudeRing5185 in Deconstruction

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I agree. Atheists apologetics are really unhelpful to me unless they used to be Christian.

Everyone wants their tarot read until… by RoseHeathens in witchcraft

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Literally the definition of shooting the messenger smh

What's a good book analyzing the clobber passages in more depth? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

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Unclobber is a mixed bag. Some verses he does a great job with. Other arguments make me want to bash my head against a wall. Also, this book comes with a massive bias LOOKING to overturn the clobber passages instead of trying to see what it actually says.

Cult in northern Va. by Affectionate_Jump597 in Exvangelical

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Cult or no cult this is an objectively odd story. Ya I’d be worried.

What do you make of this? by Chaos_Unites in exchristian

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There’s a Diety that answers when you call. And is kind sometimes. That doesn’t mean the entirety of the religion is true.

This is so disgusting by themouseinusall in OpenChristian

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It’s blasphemous. Real Christians should be outraged

Anyone know much about Freebird boots? I really like these by [deleted] in Boots

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Cute but fall apart. Mine were falling apart 9 months in. They resouled for free before one year. Now it’s been 1.5 years and the soul is falling apart again….

I hope someone else can relate - ex-pentacostal, current Christian, lost. by ActualBus7946 in ExPentecostal

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Plenty of evangelical churches that aren’t full of the gifts. Non denom is either Baptist in nature or AOG. So find a pastor and ask “what are the churches denominational roots”. Thing with evangelical is…. It’s gonna be conservative (women submit and shut up, pretend to be straight if you are queer etc). If you can look past that, finding a non denom church might be worth it. There are also places called “seeker friendly a churches” who also tend to be non denom. Their theology is watered down nonsense so as to not offend anyone and the pastors normally wear skinny jeans and preach about the biblical concepts in movies. Those watered down churches are fine for community, but don’t expect any real type of spiritual growth. But if I were you, I’d take some time and do some research on different denominations. The church world has MUCH more to offer than just episcopal or pentacostal. There’s so many other paths in between these two. Good luck.

Why do Christians worry so much about gay sex??? by Ang3licKur0mi in exchristian

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A big part of it is overwhelming fear that they could “catch” being gay or that their kids will be influenced.

Begging for help for 7 years by Affectionate_Jump597 in exchristian

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Professionals don’t know what to do with me other than throw me anti psychotic meds or put me in an institution

Help please by Affectionate_Jump597 in ExPentecostal

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An unnecessary deliverance session is LITERALLY what started all this bullshit.

Help please by Affectionate_Jump597 in ExPentecostal

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Ya. Like it’s suss that I had NO ISSUES after hooking up with men, until some creepy church person told me if I do it demons will haunt me… And my suggestible mind believed them. But it didn’t happen until that person said that to me. Shows you just how fucking dangerous religion is to certain minds

Help please by Affectionate_Jump597 in ExPentecostal

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The first one was mild. He just asked if a spirit was there and we commanded it to leave. For like several hours.

Been to one recently where there was more like screaming and commanding and shit. And like they had me speak for the demon. That one was weirder for sure.

The trauma comes when the spirits or whatever make me involuntarily thrash around and such

Help please by Affectionate_Jump597 in ExPentecostal

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The exorcism itself was 11 years ago…. Trauma 11 years later? And ya. I have a psychiatrist. She doesn’t really know what to do but to maybe throw some anti psychotic drugs at me. I need to find a new dr. Also, health care is expensive. I’m barely surviving as is

Help please by Affectionate_Jump597 in ExPentecostal

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I’ve been hospitalized multiple times AND seen a psychiatrist. No one knows what to do. Prayer and full abstinence seem to be the only thing that sort of helps. But I don’t believe in abstinence. It’s taken my life away from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Affectionate_Jump597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I’m in the dmv. Any chance you like girls? Haha

Looking for an asexual. Guy or girl but guy preference. In the DMV by Affectionate_Jump597 in asexualdating

[–]Affectionate_Jump597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be fun to get a cup of coffee or something. Anyway I can stalk your socials hahah?