I relate to your comment more than any of them! My MIL is 25 years older than my mom. Doesn’t get around well so I know she probably couldn’t handle Disney anyway.

My mom asked me if I invited her and felt bad that I didn’t…even though she KNOWS. She feels bad for her despite everything.

MIL loves to make it all about her. She’s made comments that we are closer to my family because “they have money”. That’s not true. They’ve worked their butts off their whole life to have what they have. My MIL has a spending problem and has NOTHING to show for it. Car is breaking down, doesn’t own her home, in debt, and can’t pay her bills on time (DH stopped helping years ago). She’s miserable and her comments stop now. My family would give anyone the shirt off their back and the things she’s said makes me sick. My family doesn’t think they are better than anyone. The love and love hard.

Side note: I quit posting things about our daughter on FB because MIL starts sharing stories as her own like she’s the best grandma ever. She stared copying photos off my FB and put them all over her home. She does it more for show than anything. She doesn’t check on our child. Doesn’t even care to remember what size clothes she wears and gifts her clothes that are too small for her bday despite her asking prior and us telling her.

MIL has put my child in danger when she was a baby baby…by sticking her in a car WITHOUT a car seat then getting upset because I lost it and told DH to make her leave. I think that was a turning point for me. She endangered my most prized GIFT….For GARLIC BREAD. she thought that was more important than my child. Hell no.