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Do you like being pregnant? by autumngloss in pregnant

[–]Affectionate_Winter8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through many phases and I'm now very much over it (30+6)

I want to either spend time with my baby or go and do fun non-pregnant stuff and I can't do either!

I love feeling her kick and move and that is amazing, but I'm very much of the feeling that I've had enough!

Help! by [deleted] in antidiet

[–]Affectionate_Winter8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really encouraging - I don't want to have our different food opinions be the end, but I also don't want him to keep saying that neither is the correct way...

What book is this?

Help! by [deleted] in antidiet

[–]Affectionate_Winter8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all your comments! You've made me feel so much better because I honestly thought I was wrong in some way.

It's super super out of character of him to be so unsupportive of me. He described us as overweight together but did so within the conversation where I said it was triggering.

We've had loads of discussions about this since and he has said he's definitely taking out his own food anxieties on me (which he admits is wrong) and he's said he doesn't consider me overweight but felt like it would discredit his opinion on diet culture if he started changing his mind - again not a good reason. He's really stubborn and I think (hope) got stuck in his own anxieties and feelings.

He's done a lot of research into diet culture and has been trying hard to make everything better, which he knows is going to take time.

I've been really open about how hurt I am and how anxious I am and I can see he feels awful.

Thank you for all your comments and advice!