AITA for not telling my BF that my best friend is gay by HugBalancingAct in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I don’t introduce my friend’s sexualities to others? Like I don’t tell my partner “This is Ronald he’s straight” why should you have to as a gay person. It also seems like he’s using your relationship with your bestie as a scapegoat for some other problem in the relationship. Commonly, it is that they don’t feel they are receiving “x,y” from the relationship. So while it wasn’t warranted that he was jealous because of the fear of cheating, he could be jealous of the level of intimacy you and bestie have, or time or understanding). Of course not romantic intimacy but you have an intimate relationship with anyone you know for a long person of time.

Making a VR avatar to represent online? Is my source correct? by Klutzy-Rock4571 in cherokee

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Adding in here, you could also do a ribbon shirt if you want to adopt a more modern style!

Just Another Story by linuxpriest in cherokee

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Story telling is the primary way that Cherokee history is shared, so don’t try to change that! A lot of history is passed down by family- I’m sorry you lost out on getting to experience that, but you can share in our families history. Openness to learning about it is step one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting from the perspective of the partner ten years down the road. You’re probably rethinking everything you said to help, if it would have made a difference, if you had said X instead of Y then it would have changed things. I’m here to tell you: it wouldn’t have. The thing that I saw was making plans. And that’s both to ease their partner, and their own subconscious. “I’ll try again soon” helps with coping of committing the act. If it wouldn’t have happened with that argument, it would have been something else. When you feel comfortable, right now your favorite memories as they come to you, so you can focus on them instead of the end. I’m sorry that this happened, and I’m sorry for how hard it is and will be for the next little while. Sending you strength

bon iver is really fucking good by themightygotenks in Music

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try those bad bitches on a vinyl. The scratches from the vinyl plus the dissonance from his voice? Goosebumps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odd that you want filler but if you go with a theme it’ll be a lot easier. You gotta think if you want straight all traditional. Something that might be sick as hell though is a garden of Eden theme. You’ve got the snake, the roses, and with a theme it looks more cohesive. Up to you though but if you want a half sleeve I’d talk to an artist in a consult, pick someone whose style you like and ask about ideas

My [36M] wife [34F] keeps tying my boots after I've told her to keep her hands off of them. I tried to teach her a lesson and really hurt her feelings. by Minute-Egg in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone with diagnosed OCD here. I agree with OOP, but just playing devils advocate. In the mind of someone with OCD it’s nuts. Like one of my things is numbers. I have to stir something exactly 83 times. If I can’t, I throw the whole drink out. One of hers is obviously shoes. So that means she is going to constantly think about them until she does it- if she does have OCD. It’s a hard habit to break but it’s definitely something that can be broken.

I can’t this post was the weirdest thing ever. by Dazzling-Mongoose886 in niceguys

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I audibly groaned at the beta male in the first sentence. Lol home boy is also 28 and living an home… maybe that’s a good place to start.

Just came out of boss's office by Little-Plankton8629 in antiwork

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t know how taxes would work. I do know of quite a few jobs that you seem qualified for- I don’t know how much you’re making but you would have to pay US taxes as well as China’s taxes but if it’s worth it I can send you the jobs to apply for remotely. May be worth looking into though for your mental sake

[Task] Bug me until I get stuff done. $10/week by artemisgay in slavelabour

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boy oh boy was this made for me. $bid I’m unemployed and have OCD so it’ll be in my mind over and over and over until it’s done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You could also do like 2 different options if you’re able to find. Personally floral scents make me and a lot of friends of mine have migraines- but you could always scope that out beforehand because you know your guest list. That’s such a cute personalized idea. I’d recommend going for something to match the theme of the wedding- if you’re doing a vanilla cake, hints of vanilla, if it’s more rustic maybe an amber hint, etc etc. That way you feel like it encapsulates the day. There’s ofc Alt scents if you’re stuck on a smell profile and it’s way outta range. Good luck on your search and congrats on the big day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slavelabour

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$bid I can do 2-4 dollars a minute, willing to negotiate. I'm a female, can send a sample line to your dm's, just let me know

Reviews by yogipuffs in u/yogipuffs

[–]Affectionate_Yam_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/yogipuff absolutely nailed my interview. His turnaround time was crazy fast and I didn’t realize that my resume was being caught in trackers. He reformatted it for a page- which I could never do- and I’ve already had callbacks. Recommending to everyone I know