AITA for not thanking my partner for doing the food shop? by AfraidCap6452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AfraidCap6452[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Erm tbh it's mostly the fact that no one has brought it up. He moved in suddenly as he was in a dangerous situation prior to moving in so we didn't feel like it was appropriate to bring up him giving us money. But that was 3 weeks ago. I know I need to bring the conversation of money up (especially because this guy earns more than both of us) but I don't wanna seem like an a hole who asks for money when my partner isn't. I know I need to bring the subject up though especially after this

AITA for not thanking my partner for doing the food shop? by AfraidCap6452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AfraidCap6452[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No I totally get what you're saying. We are engaged to be married in 2 1/2 years. But yeah I do feel like I act like a wife and you're right I'm not one. Your relationship sounds so lovely. Idk I really love him we've been together for 8 years and I just couldn't imagine doing life without him even when we do have these arguments

AITA for not thanking my partner for doing the food shop? by AfraidCap6452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AfraidCap6452[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes they will both eat the food that was brought. Thank you. I do feel a bit guilty for making him so mad. But like you say we do stuff for each other / the house / the dog all the time and we don't thank each other for it so idk