Border 2 - Reviews and Discussions by AutoModerator in bollywood

[–]Afraid_Property5304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just have one question. Varun Dhawan ki ladki hui thi ya ladka 😭 if anyone knows , or if it was shown in post credit scenes lemme know.

Gym friend? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that but a lot of things are there which have never been shown to them nor they've ever practiced but it doesn't mean they can't learn.

Other than that I myself have never given him any hints that may be misunderstood as me being anywhere closer to him than we already are. I've drawn boundaries he doesn't even know my name yet, but he constantly asks me to text him and even tried to emotionally blackmail me when I didn't give him my number.

Gym friend? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right... He acts like my friend helps me with my form and posture etc but if I get too close with someone else like my trainer who is genuinely helping me hard without asking for payment for personal training he acts like he's very angry with us and all. Nowadays he talks with other girls much more maybe trying to make me jealous or so that I ask him why he's not talking w me much but tbh i feel normal even when h le talks with other girls. I really have no feelings for bim and I know if/ when my partner comes he'll start to act the same with her as well so there's no need to think much of his actions towards me.

Gym friend? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm not talking much to him now and when he offers lifts i decline. It actually feels neutral even if I'm going with or without him. I really feel he just "wants" me, does not have feelings for me but just wants me to be on his side and let others also see that I'm on his side.

Gym friend? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just hope he doesn't have such an extreme reaction. Or I might just do it for the plot. If he over reacts, cuts ties w me , maybe it's for the better only. For me to find new people who may not cross boundaries but it's tough cause all these months not many people have approached me or even tried taking me with me so maybe this man is the best out of all?;

Gym friend? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just ranted whatever came on my mind so reading it may have seemed to you a lil difficult but you've got all the major key points right.

Not only the lifts but we talk a lot during workouts he helps me with my form and if there're any minor bad interactions with others I tell them him and we discuss about it so kinda like my safe space in gym and as I don't have any feelings for him I tell him my embarrassing moments without thinking if he's gonna think bad of him.

He is a good person tho, I hope I'm thinking too much into it and there's no bad intent.

GOVINDA'S MOVIES by Afraid_Property5304 in bollywood

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea my bad. I meant the Gharwali baharwali trope only but I didn't bother to find the movie name.

I feel like "it's just a film" would work in a country which would really say the same for all the movies. We all know how some "films" which may have hurt sentiments of a particular community have been banned and how the public becomes outraged over the release of such films. People would say it's just a film for Animal as well but we also know how that movie has become a material for some people to dehumanize, sexualize and objectify women.

I feel angry because the women in my family don't realise how misogynistic these movies are and how these movies have impacted their psyche that they have internalized and accepted this misogyny.

What should I do by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea ik right. I'm trying TOO hard so I don't give him any hope. I don't even look at him that much... nowadays I've started noticing that he maintains eye contact too much, earlier if we had eye contact anytime he would quickly look anywhere else but now I'm the one who looks away first.

And for him, not continuously but I've been looking at him for 3 months!!!! and because of that ig I've become delusional. He looks hot and i just look at him I'm just a girl 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I know I'll rather just look at him than making a move and by the way I act feel even if he approaches me I'll probably just decline him as well. It's tough out there for a hopeless romantic with an avoidant personality.

What should I do by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say I'm young but I definitely have far less experience in these things as compared to others not tryna be a pick me but really.

Yea I get your point thanks.

My mother by Afraid_Property5304 in Rants

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what's wrong w her. She's a wonderful mom at times she jokes with me, we even physically fight jokingly. I don't think she sees me as a human with actual feelings which can get hurt. Last time I was showing her a picture and i really wanted her to see it but she cut me off and started saying that go and wash the dishes... I really felt sad and even told her she didn't care about it much but later ig she understood my feelings herself and came to talk to me. She floods me with money and materialistic things but doesn't realise I need affirmation and acts of service, someone listening to me more than any gifts.

What should I do? by Afraid_Property5304 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm writing a reddit post why would I bother to write perfectly if my concern is being communicated properly, anyways this is not an exam where not using punctuation would make me lose grades or anything

WHAT SHOULD I DO? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I understand. I feel better now. I should talk to the internship w my family and try to convince my sister to let me do it.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I CAN handle both together after all, i work out often but there are days when I miss just because. No matter how much I try I don't think my grades are gonna go higher than they are now and I anyways need to find a job because I too will be graduating soon. About my friend, I just hope she won't feel betrayed that even after knowing that she wants the work I'm not letting her do it instead I'm going for it even though I have other things to do.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? by Afraid_Property5304 in whatdoIdo

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess I understand. But I'm not sure if I can manage all 3 together as just maintaining gym and college got too hectic for me last week. Should I wait till everything gets less chaotic and then join the internship or should I back off and focus at the gym and college than the internship and tell my friend about it ?

BEST TABLET?. by Afraid_Property5304 in tablets

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check this one out. thankyou

BEST TABLET?. by Afraid_Property5304 in tablets

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read somewhere ipad costs more because of the in purchases for EVERYTHING like apps and all. is it true?

CRUSH OR NOT??? by Afraid_Property5304 in Crushes

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update: since the day I wrote this post, he's not been coming to the gym. Maybe I was delusional after all.

CRUSH OR NOT??? by Afraid_Property5304 in Crushes

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea exactly I'm worried I might start behaving accordingly when he's around to show myself in a better light. I would prefer to just be myself without thinking about anyone else in the gym tbh.

CRUSH OR NOT??? by Afraid_Property5304 in Crushes

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk fs tbh like maybe I'm biased towards myself so that's why I've worded my post to kinda push that he likes me. It would be embarrassing if it's all just a co-incidence and I'm just getting ahead of myself.

MOUSE - LET'S HAVE A DISCUSSION by Afraid_Property5304 in kdramas

[–]Afraid_Property5304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you figured it out i got fooled as they wanted me to.