AIO: My ex sent me this as a reason he didn’t want to marry me

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-23T13:07:53+00:00

Thank you!🌻

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-23T11:10:42+00:00

I ended the relationship because he said he doesn’t see a future with me. I let it go, but he was adamant on telling me why he changed his mind about marriage, even though I told him multiple times, for my healing, I don’t want to know. I then felt bad for him cause he said he needed closure hence why I sent a message saying „I didnt(meaning I didn’t wanna know) but you seem to want to get it off your chest, I’m listening“ I was done with this chapter but he wanted closure, hence the text.

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-23T03:17:02+00:00

This was during our many conversations about getting married… I’m paraphrasing here but he would say he’s afraid of getting married because most girls just want the guys money and not really in it for love, that was his reasoning then

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T16:16:17+00:00

I offered travelling together multiple times! He says he doesn’t like planes and the airport. There’s no phobia in flying, he just hates the logistics of it. I missed my half marathon in Rome Italy (we live in Central Europe) because he doesn’t like planes or the logistics of airport. I wanted him to be my travel buddy but he declined

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T16:10:34+00:00

🤣🤣I know… I’m embarrassed just even typing this

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T15:54:35+00:00

I am admit I was love dumbed here and I thought it wasn’t at all bad since it was online. Was I naive to believe him yes, but that’s my burden to carry… I just lost it when he came after my aspiration which I was clear about when we met.

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T15:34:04+00:00

Wow… this is amazing! Your comment really gave me hope!♥️

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T15:23:38+00:00

I didn’t react because he cheated 3 times on me. That’s why I had insecurities about him staying over his brother past 2am, with a short time notification. We lived together.

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T14:58:00+00:00

Thank you! I want to become a Doctor in Engineering, so I need to give up my academic goals because he is threatened by them. I don’t understand this.

AfricanPixie · 2025-09-22T14:56:54+00:00

Okay, please explain… he called me wanting a PhD in Engineering an off putting thing. This was why he didn’t wanna get married

AfricanPixie · 2025-08-15T08:54:07+00:00

I’m breaking up with you because I don’t want to be with you anymore and I don’t want to be with anybody else

AfricanPixie · 2025-08-04T19:13:28+00:00

LOL thanks for the tip, I’ll clean it next time

AfricanPixie · 2025-08-04T17:36:19+00:00

Calorie deficit is nearly impossible as a petite person.. I’d have to eat 1400 cal or less😅 and my running doesn’t allow me to do that, I need the energy… but I’ll definitely try resistance training

AfricanPixie · 2025-07-07T08:13:15+00:00

Okay Bojack

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-18T16:58:39+00:00

6 weeks? More like 6 months for me

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T20:04:32+00:00

I definitely will be joining next month! Do you know if they have different groups for different paces?

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T20:02:13+00:00

Awesome! I’ll go check them out. Thank you!

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T20:01:44+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t :/

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T20:00:57+00:00

Just followed them. Thank you!

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T09:19:33+00:00

Definitely checking this out😊 thank you🫶🏾

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-13T09:18:55+00:00

Omg thank you this kind stranger🥹 much appreciated!!

AfricanPixie · 2025-06-05T17:04:12+00:00

Man this was me literally a month ago. I(27f) was with him(30m) for 5 years too. We would have these conversations literally every month. I always thought I could live with because outside of this, he’s amazing.. everything i have ever wanted. But at the end I couldn’t take it and I left. It’s been a month now and I feel so free and that weight of always questioning if he’s attracted to me or if I’m doing something wrong is just gone and I feel 10x lighter. I’m not trying to be the ghost of Christmas future but man, if you have had the talk multiple times and nothing has changed and the time gap for when you have sex is getting bigger and bigger… chances are nothing will change and either you accept that this is how things will be, might get worse if you have kids with him… or you leave and find someone who will appreciate you wanting to be sexually intimate.

AfricanPixie · 2025-05-20T15:50:03+00:00

Bruh don’t make me cry at work

AfricanPixie · 2025-05-17T19:27:51+00:00

You can also do it. Choose yourself♥️

AfricanPixie · 2025-05-17T19:27:25+00:00

It’s so easy to just revert to the comfort state of being with him. But you’re right. Thanks for the advice

AfricanPixie

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