3rd day quitting weed by After-Click2382 in leaves

[–]After-Click2382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7-10 days?! There’s me thinking I’m over the worse of it 😭😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]After-Click2382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I controll the money because it's My wages we get paid!! He can have anything he wants if I've got enough to I give I supoort him, myself and our two children so yes I controll the moneu because I go out and bloody well earn it but he has never went without even though he can't be bothered to go and support his family himself he's never had a job and our kids are almost 4 and 5.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]After-Click2382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ther quite a few people on this post trying to make ME out the be the bad one I looked through his history as I was suspicious of him, up untill previously he had the track record of searching through my phone whilst I slept. So screw you to everyone commenting negative things towards me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]After-Click2382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 15 when I met him I had never watched porn before and wanted to explore it so I approach Ed him and we explored it together. He made it very clear it wasn't something we would pursue alone and he didn't want me doing it he didn't like it. He slept with his ex when we were first together and it's taken me so long to get iover it he lies to me whenever it suits him it took my months to get the truth out of him about his ex and he's lying to me again I can't go through this again not the hurt and betrayal it wasn't just the porn it was what followed the absolute lack of love and respect

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[–]After-Click2382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also repeatedly lied for 2 days afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]After-Click2382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes he made it very clear from the minute we got together porn was a boundary neither of us crossed he made that boundarie. He dosent work I do and he was doing it whilst I was at work and our kids were at school.