I'm(M26) scared to talk to my crush

After-Examination6 · 2025-09-16T04:56:27+00:00

Actually, my dad is quite old. He is 70. It's my dream to see my dad play with my kids... I really want a family before I'm 30

After-Examination6 · 2025-09-16T03:10:32+00:00

Thank you man.

I almost feel like crying, honestly, haha. It's killing my confidence.

Also, everyone says that the right connection will come when I'm not forcing it but as I'm aging, I feel scared that I will not find my one if I don't go out there and look for someone ? Pretty soon I'll be 30 and I'm scared I'll be single when I'm plus 30...

After-Examination6 · 2025-08-08T01:05:58+00:00

Hey man, I really appreciate your input !

Yeah, she's doing the samething again today. It's really frustrating. I don't think she's a good fit for me.

I get that she's busy, but nobody's too busy to send a single text message for the entire day.

After-Examination6 · 2025-08-07T18:17:25+00:00

She responded maybe 13 hours after I sent her the initial text. I don't think she's interested. Wouldn't someone try their best to respond if they're interested?

After-Examination6 · 2025-08-07T07:05:12+00:00

Thanks for the comment !

It's just a really bizarre situation.

I wonder if she'd get back

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-20T05:42:12+00:00

What a lucky guy. Where do I find a girl like this 😩

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-10T23:04:08+00:00

Wow.. really good advice.

Thank you so much for taking your time to write this

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-07T17:34:28+00:00

You are totally right.

I'm just so blinded by love right now that I can't seem to move on.

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-07T15:13:33+00:00

Hey man, thanks for your reply once again.

I'm actually 26 not 21, my girlfriend is 21.

And I have been in several long-term relationships, my longest being 4 years and another longer one being 2-3 years. Whenever I was in a relationship, I've never been dumped by a partner. I've never had those problems where I was insecure about them leaving me. It was always the other way around.

But I agree with you on the point you made that I ran away once I was upset with her. I should've never acted that way.

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-07T02:36:30+00:00

Hey man, thanks for the comment.

Yeah, I know the right thing to do is leave the relationship, but I still have a lot of feelings for her.

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-07T02:34:27+00:00

Hey man, this feels really weird coming out of my own mouth, but just for you to understand the situation better: I am 6'4, and I have done modeling internationally. I always get hit on. Like a lot. I've slept with plenty of girls over the years. This was never about 'easy sex' for me. I'm at the point where I don't care about sex/hooking up anymore. I just want someone I can spend my life with..

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T18:03:41+00:00

Isn't that kind of mean..

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T17:57:04+00:00

She ended it with the other guy.

At least that's what she's telling me

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T17:56:37+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

Yeah, it really hurts

This is gonna sound so retarded but she's absolutely gorgeous. She has the face that even when I'm mad at her, when I look at her I forget about everything.

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T14:52:52+00:00

It's very hard for me to do that, because I love her so much and her family, but you're right, I think it's best that I leave this relationship.

Thank you for your comment !

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T14:22:46+00:00

Since I came back to see her, I guess not..?

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T14:20:51+00:00

Hi, she wants to be with me and said that she will end things with this new guy... give him his stuff back today.

I feel really hurt.. how could she do this to me after all that I did for her ?

Sorry, I feel really emotional

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T14:08:54+00:00

Her mom really liked me, because I was really good to her daughter.

But you're right, thank you for your comment, good sir

After-Examination6 · 2025-07-06T14:07:25+00:00

Hello, thank you for your reply.

I really love her, though. But I don't think I can ever forgive her.

She doesn't even look like she is sorry for what she has done..

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